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PostPosted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 12:26 am 
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OK guys heres my story

I've always been this enthousiastic, friendly, funny guy who ppl like to hang around with. In my life ive made great friends, who really like me for who i am. Since ive been reading pua stuff (2 years now) ive noticed stuff about myself: im NOT alpha. People like me around them, but im never the leader...and Im now conciously noticing that. I've never had a problem with it, but now i feel like its time for me to take matters into my onw hands and start the change...though gradually.

Ive gone to a new college and have already moved into this new dorm where the "ranks" of the males are decided and i feel like im right at the bottom. How do I climb to the top, to the point where ppl look up to me and I call the shots? I'm not even a freshman, but even guys younger than me notice im not aplha.

How do i make this transition? Suddenly speaking slower and acting tough wont work: I've already shown these guys the 'true' me. Maybe some books on how to be alpha around guys? Plz help i wanna get this handled!

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if they think your a pussy, and they "know your true self" its pretty hard to convince them your alpha.

the only idea i would have for you is to not focus on it, work on building an attractive lifestyle. ya, talk slower and act alpha, once you start bringing in girls hotter then theirs, and your having the cooler people and legends in the house, youll look awesome. theyll take notice of your new awesomeness and alphaness, then just dont screw it up.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 2:19 pm 
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Game them. Game the dudes. Befriend one and the rest will probably follow. Just be careful what type of closes you get :) i would consider a #close as far as you should take it.
Joining clubs, societies where the 'cool' people are at is also a good idea befriend them there.

Hope this has helped you in some way :)

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 6:11 pm 
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Make it look like you have loads of chicks in your life. That is the easiest way to become an alpha male.

I also have this podcast that i am willing to give to you that should help.

http://www.megaupload.com/?d=RWQDKNJM


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 12:38 am 
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I had a similar situation when I started college 2 years ago then one of friends told me to read a couple books and my social life took a 180. If you are willing to put in the work and have an open mind than becoming more alpha and moving up the social ladder is not difficult at all. I would strongly recommend reading:

Dale Carnegie - How To Win Friends And Influence People
Carlos Xuma - Secrets of the Alpha Male
Mark Redman - Conquer Your Campus


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First step - take up martial arts.

Join three different dojos in your area in three different martial arts.

Choose your favourite one after a few weeks and stick with it.

Trust me man, this is GOLD advice.


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