so im putting this here because the girl is basically my gf..we have established a month ago that were not hooking up with other people anymore and then today i saw she wrote on her friends facebook wall "i met a 25 year old!!!woot woot moving up in the ages." im not sure if this means she hooked up with him or not, how can i ask without sounding afc and what should i do if it turns out she did hook up with him? and if it matters, yeah i really do like this girl a lot..probably more than ive ever liked any other girl before

Seems disrespectful at best. I would ditch her and find another chick for yourself

Woah Woah Woah, don't do anything stupid yet.

Find out what it's about first. What if you dump her to later find out it was a personal joke between her and her friend, or she was simply putting one of her friends quotes from that day onto her Facebook.

Obviously it seems as if she's being quite disrespectful, so at best find out the real reason behind the message and talk about it, say you found it disrespectful. If she didn't hook up with him, stick with that imo, but if she did, dump her like yesterday's trash then.

nothing is what it seems .... like prophet said

if she really did hook up with him you should dump her like trash, best thing is to ignore her.

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just reading this post made me -_-

brush it off dude

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No- If you like this girl and have decided to be exclusive seems you don't just ditch the chick.

you have to discuss this with her- and when I say discuss, you gotta let her do the discussing.

Ask her about it- see what she says...as mentioned it could mean something else.

Likely it does sound like she's met a 25 year old dude...but ??

if it does in fact happen to be a guy that she's posting about- then you can either bolt for the door and tell her you're not interested in being exclusive with a gal that's postin about other dudes on her Facebook.

she will be chasing you at this point.

i asked her if she hooked up with the guy and she said "no? is that a serious question" and she doesnt lie to me, sounds naive but i definitely believe her..she has told me that when she has been in past relationships she has never cheated because she thinks that it is just better to break up then cheat, so i do believe that she didnt hook up with him but there is no way i can definitely know for sure

Perception is truth, you cant let her do this more than once. It can tear you up inside. Being naieve isnt an excuse for that

let her do what? hang out with other guys or post stuff like that? because how can you be in a relationship with someone you dont trust..i do trust her because i know if she told me she didnt hook up with him then it means she didnt

You should comment on the facebook post because that will send a signal that you are aware. Depending on her reaction you will know what her post was all about.

Hmm.. I would have talked about it, -but do it the right way. Dont just send a text "what the fuck???"

If you are in a "relationship" or anything like that, you see eachother on a regular basis? Just do something usual, watch a movie or whatever you guys do and then ask what it was all about. If it seems like she's lying, don't go "omg omg u lying?". Don't make any drama, if she's lying she'll probably ditch you in a few days anyhow.