this happened to me a couple of times guys and i dont know how to respond.

Basically, when i tell a girl to hang out with me and my friends (i always tell her "oh come with us to so and so", i don't make it sound as if i'm making it a date or what not) she always asks "oh who's coming?" and i dont know how to respond to that. Because when i tell her who is actually coming, the girl starts making up excuses and bailing out because she knows one of the friends and doesn't want to see him. This happened a few times and i don't know how to either avoid or respond differently to that question.

any ideas?

If that isn't working out for you then I guess we need to try something different. How about actually asking the girl on a date with you instead? What's wrong with that?

J

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Exactly, why not tell her something like "Since there's always someone hanging with me that you dont like, why don't we go to *** with the 2 of us"

But make it sounds less AFC, i'm drawing a blank at the moment

JSmooth,
True, but she has a boyfriend and my goal was not to game her; I was trying to get her to come to build social proof to game some other girl.
Thanks though and Chillburg you too.

if ur trying to build a social circle with her get with a outing. e.g. club, bar venue. tell her u like meeting new people and that ur tired of hanging out with ur friends. go out with HER friends, maybe even boyfriend. u have to make sure u have damn good frame control. pick out the venue. r u essentially trying to game her "hot" friends?
be the alpha male when u say it. and what is the alpha male? it's someone who is immune to social pressures.

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