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I'm sure this kind of kings happened to pretty much everyone: you try to kiss a lady you think to be interested in you, and she just dodges you.
Of course the problem is that she didn't like you enough and maybe a little more DHV would use, but my question is another:
What do you do after been dodged?
I mean, how you get out of this akward situation without looking like a failing jerk? Can you still run the game to win her back again?
The Sabba
The Sabba,
Well, first of all once she dodges it she's going to be looking at you for a reaction. She is going to expect you to be angry or upset that it didn't work. The key here is acting unaffected by what just happened. So the first thing to do is don't react negatively to what just happened and don't bring it back up.
Go back to building attraction and/or possibly more comfort with your target depending on what you feel you need at that moment. Some women need more comfort established before they kiss a man, and then again like you said you might not have finished doing your job creating attraction either.
Don't make it a big deal, and go back to where you need to in the process. Rebuild what you need and try again later!
Jon
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