Hey Fellow PUAs. I know this is my 2nd post, but I am in desperate need of some help here. Let me give you the situation at hand.

I have a friend that put me onto her friend (Both of these females live in a completely different state). Well originally it started as simple flirting....for example, I would tell my friend that her friend is cute, etc. "tell her I will cook her dinner, massage her, and then fuck the shit out of her" Blah Blah Blah.......

Then I ended up friending her on Facebook. We then went from that to Gchat and Text........and now we have talked on the phone maybe a total of 3 times within 1 month. NOW she is coming on Wed 12/30 and we are hanging out for NYE and I have never met her before. I have never been in this situation so.......maybe the community can give me some pointers.

To better debrief you on the conversations held on Gchat, Text, and Phone calls. Gchats in the beginning was more so getting to feel one another and to build comfort. After that it went to playful flirting. Then it went to sexual chats and texts. Now it is back and forth...I spoke to her on the phone like 3 times. First time, she was drunk and called we talked for maybe 10 minutes. Second time she called, she was sober, and well we just got to know each other for a long time. maybe a few hours. Third time we spoke she was tipsy driving home and we ended up having semi phone sex. I told her to rub her clit and finger herself and she said that she has never done it before, but when she sees me she wants to do it for me while I watch (super hot)

So I had gotten her a christmas present (victoria secret lingerie, she saw the pictures, down to wear it). I also pretty much know that in the back of her head SEX is a most definite possibility. I had assured her plenty of times that I am not wanting sex ( I really don't, ok who am I kidding of course I do, but I would much rather have a good time exploring each other's sexual energy ). She seems to be down for everything. I told her I have a hotel and that we will have to ditch our friends to be alone and hot tub together naked and fuck her against the floor to ceiling windows of a hotel. Etc. Etc. She said, " I'm Down ".

Right now, and I find this quite often, is after you build comfort with a girl and she seems to be feeling you. You go thru a phase where she gets really cold, and I don't know the term that the forum calls this, but it's almost like she is seeing if I will chase her. I usually get stuck here as I don't know whether to chase or to ignore or freeze out. Any input is greatly appreciated. Again I am a newb so please be gentle, I am reading as much material as I possibly can and am learning as well as growing as we continue to further each other's "GAME"......Thanks

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