long time reader, first time poster.
so last night i went to a small christmas party, something like 5 guys and 7 girls. there was quite a bit of alcohol, so i know i wasn't high functioning.

anyways, i start talking to HB asian, as shes giving me eyes, neg a little (probably a lot, i always neg a lot. ). Shes wearing a Jon Legend shirt, i tell a story about when i saw him live. she practically begs me to kiss her so i do, and we end up making out pretty heavily. Again, this is a small party, so everyone notices us and i suggest we get out of the spotlght and go outside. she agrees to get some air, and we go to my car outside. as we walk to my car she says "you know im not having sex till marriage." DING, i know this is a shit test; but i didnt know how to answer. I end up saying "no way me too", and resume making out with her. we are in the car for around 30 min, a lot of petting, but no lay, for which I am disappointed. then she wants to head back to the party, i say ok. we make out for like 10 more mintues, then we head back to the party.
But then we get back to the party, and she starts flirting with some other guy right in front of me. DING. another shit test. unsure of the best course of action, I head over to my guy friends and chill, and start flirting with the next target, HB blonde.

HB blond is flirting back, acting like she wants to be kissed (wierd to me, as I was JUST outside with HB Asian, and again everyone had noticed us?) we play a game of kings cup, my idea as i was trying to lead the group as DHV(?). anyways people start leaving, i guess HB Asian did, i didnt notice (damn! wouldve number closed, but i forgot). anyways party dies down, we start watching the south park movie, because its so damn funny. HB Blonde sits next to me, and we start making out. she grabs me down there, and it starts getting hot. the people next to us dont notice and they decide to call it a night and go to sleep. HB Blonde has already said she was spending the night, and my friend had passed out already...
other people getting ready for bed totally interrupts us, and i was worried all was lost. but once it gets quiet we start making out again, i take off her shirt and my pants, she grabs me again, i finger her, and after a tad of LMR (i do what mystery discusses and stop, to this she stops too, so after a bit i kiss her some more and have to work it back up), she puts me inside her and that was that.

So thoughts/suggestions?
what do i do with the "no sex till marriage" bullcrap?
HB Asian ignoring me?
HB Blonde going for me AFTER i hooked up with another girl right in front of her?
anything else i should work on? i wouldve added more detail, but i had a fair amount to drink.
THANKs!

Dude, the HB Asian gave you a shit test and you failed by not pursuing her in the car for a f-close. If she is talking about it, she is thinking about it. You started out ok but then failed the end game with the HB Asian.

As to the blonde, cool deal on the f-close. You increased your value in front of the blonde's eyes by making out with the HB Asian. Making you look like a stud.

Yes, never mind the fact that everyone was probably drunk. Drunk girls are easy to pick up and f-close.

One advise. NEVER get drunk when you are gaming. You lose control of yourself and cannot remedy a situation gone wrong in time.

Best,

J-Dub

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