Okay well my hair dresser is pretty hot!!, and ever since i first started going there about 4 months ago, me and her flirt large! ( i get my haircut every 2 weeks so i see her descent enough) she told me her age ( 22) and asked for mine (19), but i told her that i was 21 just so she wouldnt think i was some little kid right ?? but i do look older , but anyway..
so after my last haircut we are talking and i said we should get a drink sometime , blah , blah ,blah and without even asking she went and grabbed her business card and wrote her cell on the back.
the next day i texted her just to see how shes doing, blah blah , we talked for a bit, then she said she wanted to see me,... so i ended up driving to her appartment and picked her up and went to a regular dinner/movie and then walked around a chritsmas light display..
during dinner we were talking about me , she wanted to know where abouts i live and if i had any room mates etc...well first of all iam currently still living with my parents ..but because she thought i was 21, i lied again and said yeah i live in a appparntment with a freind..( in my head im freaking out, should i tell her or not??)
at the end of the date we madeout for a bit then called it a night, i went home and texted her saying i had a good time, she agreed and she wants to see me later on this week for friday night.
soo what am i supposed to do?? she obviusly likes me, i kinda like her .. do i tell her the truth? or keep the lie going and just try to F-close her on friday and leave it alone..or whhat ??

please help me out
cheers!!

Had a same experinece when I was 16 and have sarged girl who was 20. She was hot as hell and sarged by many older guys (20-30) so i had a feeling I will have better chances if I tell her that I am at least old as she is. Few days later, we were together on the beach, her laying on me, I had eyes closed, just enjoying, she was playing with my necklace and suddenly I realised that I have my birth date on my necklace so I panically opened eyes and she was looking at me with cute smile saying she don`t care and that she actually thought that I was younger and kissed me.

For you, its a bit more serious cause you lied twice, about age and about living alone. One lie is not such a big deal but more lies can make her feel you are fake and she can`t trust you. My advice is to tell her truth. Say how you really liked her and you were affraid she wouldn`t even consider you if she knew your age. Tell here how you don`t your relationship (whatever) to be build on lies and that you are sorry. I am sure she will accept that but don`t wait too long to admit the truth. More you wait, harder will be.

Marco

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I agree, I'd come clean ASAP. IMO if someone were to come clean of their own accord I wouldn't be too worried about more lies, they've probably learned their lesson. I mean, some trust would be lost but I wouldn't consider it a deal breaker.

I agree, I'd come clean ASAP. IMO if someone were to come clean of their own accord I wouldn't be too worried about more lies, they've probably learned their lesson. I mean, some trust would be lost but I wouldn't consider it a deal breaker.