Hello,

When my girl talks about ex'es (she had a few) it's usually very benign..
like she doesent just out from the blue talk about them..

Last time was when i said something about me kissing her infront of her family, and she said that she has never kissed a bf infront of her family, well only once (she starts to laugh) with Max (she never talked about him, kinda weird she just says his name instead of "my ex) once kissed me and my grandma was peeking through the window..

Well anyway... it's looks pretty benign.. anyway..

I've never had a gf before, and i dont really know how to handle it..

I usually just smile and say something, and then quickly move on..
Is there any real "danger" in her talking about ex'es?

hmmm
and how do you handle it?

Sounds like theres no problem, you shouldnt let this worry you. Seems like her ex just came up randomly because thats where the conversation led

Yes, but is the convos about her ex'es something i should quickly change subject to? Or should i like ask into to it? Like, pretend im interested hmm

don't fucking talk about exes .... really ... why the fuck do you want to know ...

it's like asking how many ex- boyfriends she had ... YOU CAN'T take it anyway .. 2 BF 3 BF 4 BF you can't stand it because you are fucking her right now and every number will be terrible.

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yes i quickly change subject.. but it bugs me and i think its because its the only thing i cant relate to. i feel like a blind guy being told about colors..

i never ask about them though, i dont need to know..

Exes is a sign of the friendzone.

Ask yourself, whould she really talk about the guys she has fucked with the guy she is going to fuck? NO! this is friendarea, feelings and shit:)

ehh what?

anyways she's a virgin

Your missing the point, your not going to talk about your past life with someone you see suitable for your future, well not before your into some form of a relationship.

Talking about exes isn’t in any form qualifying herself to you. It is friend zone. You can ignore me, but it doesn’t change the end result.

hm okay, well we were friends before we got into a relationship..

anyway, she doesent talk about them.. she just says like it was a past friend.. anyway, she almost never does it.. i only think she did it like 2 or 3 times in all..

i wont ignore you.. still we are in a relationship, so, how can it be friendzone hmm..

the partners she had were like "hold hands and kiss".. not much other than that.. so.. well

i dont understand what you guys are trying to tell me lol...

You think she is putting him in the friend zone? I disagree.
It's not like she's sitting down and having a serious conversation about her ex's, or that she LOVES talking about them.

She is simply mentioning her ex's in situations where she can relate to them. That is absolutely harmless.

However, if she starts talking about her ex's every fucking day and act as if she really misses them and that is was way more amusing with them - then it's time to worry.

So far, so good. Stop worrying.

To be honest I think mentioning ex's is fine... It's when they sit there and think about them and not say a thing that is worrying. At least by mentioning them it shows they have nothing to hide!

Thanks Zen 'n timmy ..

Yeah, you understood me...

I will stop over-reading it.. hey, i was just a lil curious to what you all thought about it..

Thanks..

She lives 2.000 km away.. and im taking the plane to her tomorrow

wish me luck ay

Good luck mate, everything'll be fine