so guys, i need some help...im a HS senior so my gaming takes place at house parties that i go to every weekend. i know that there are tons of girls who want me, but i just cant close the deal. i end up going to party's with them every weekend and at those parties ppl go in the back room to close the deal, for the sake of this example and learning lets refer to hb9 as the girl. so hb9 and i will be around the house flirting, dancing, hugging, rubbing up on each other, etc. but i have no idea of how to get her to go in the back with me...

should i just flat out say "lets go hu", or use some clever line, or what...im clueless

in summary, i need some guidance in developing my closing procedure. Thanks in advanced guys

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"Can't be afraid to gamble"

Take her hand and lead her back there! You are the guy you lead the interaction. Get her horny as you can, then take her by the hand and take her to a more isolated place. You don't have to say anything, she'll get the idea.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

leading her is definitely the way to go. also dancing is a good way for you too to get close and kino more without making it noticeable to people around you cause everyone is dancing. there isnt always dancing so i no that can be a problem, when leading her away if she asks say something funny, i sometimes say "we are going her to talk about politics what else would we do?" then wink. it works real well ha ha, and im in high school too.
in high school though, if these girls are from your school be CAUTIOUS of who you hook up with. word can get around fast in high school, and your rep. can go in the shit hole really fast trust me it is not easy to recover. i dont even go for girls at my high school hardly at all any more because i had to make a drastic recovery from a bad rep (i can explain if you want more on how to make a high school recovery but i suggest dont even go down that road ha..)
basically, be careful, realize girls do talk to each other, and specially at high school they ALL have connections and can figure things out

good luck mate

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

First off: Escalate a little before trying to bring her to the back room. Do it discreetly though--mR.e, though I disagree with a lot of what he says (more on this in a sec), has a point--ASD is much higher when her friends can see. And, instead of taking her by the hand to the back room, grab her wrist. It is much more sexual and she will be turned on.

mR.e is right when he says that high school girls talk...THIS IS A GOOD THING. Become the guy that hooks up with girls and you will get around. Never apologize for it! Also, for this to work, it helps to be good in bed--make sure she cums a few times. Also, do not ONS these girls and then ignore them. Right after the lay, lay out the ground rules--make her an MLTR with no strings. Then act completely normally around her in general.

I am a freshman in college, fresh from the high school experience (though I was more of a gf man in hs).

kino for the specific girl im thinking about from last night was VERY strong. when she came through the door she ran up to me first jumped in my arms and wrapped her legs around me. the rest of the night we were constantly touching each other etc etc.

so for instance, at one point during the night she gave me a high five as hard as she could, she hurt herself in the process(lol) so she turned around and kinds screeched in pain, so i went up behind her (kind of like a back hug) and wrapped her in my arms and grabbed both her hands and rubbed them while making fun of her for being such a baby.-what you guys are telling me is that at this point i couldve lead her to the back room myself?

furthermore, lets say i was to have done that and than once we get into the back room by ourselves...what would be my next move?

@mRe- thats been a huge sticking point for me, determining who to get with and who not to. but at this point ive created such high standards for myself that im a senior and despite having tons of girls who want me, im so inexpierenced im afraid to truly pursue anything...at this point, ive decided to just get with whomever i can (as logn as there of at least my social stature) to get the expierence and comfort.

@realnamematt- yeah, i figured that being with a bunch of girls is a huge DHV in and of itself, however ive never even kissed a girl yet (i dont know how to make out with a girl either if someone can help me with that)...let alone fcked

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"Can't be afraid to gamble"

Alright let me try and help you on this...

1) Sex - no matter what you read, watch or have people tell you, you SUCK at it! lol nothing personal, my point is that until you have experience, nothing can truly substitute for it. So, bite the bullet and just go for it. If you can, find a girl that is inexperienced too, it will make it less awkward and less pressure if you mess up.

2) Making Out - I'm a personal fan of the old school locking eyes, slowly moving in, and if she mirrors your movements then go for it. Start with a regular kiss, hold briefly, pull away, and then go in for it again. (This really should seem like all one movement). If shes comfortable with it, she'll move back in to and then you can begin to "make out". IMPORTANT NOTE - kissing is not just about your lips, make sure you do something with your hands too. I like to have one hand curled around her upper arm, lightly touching the back of her arm (its a sensitive area to touch) and usually have my other hand around the back of her neck so that I can drag my fingers around the shorter hairs at the base of her hair line. All you really have to do is move your thumb up and down slightly and it does wonders.

If her whole body starts really gets into making out (rocking with your puling away and going in again), this is the time that you should pull away and lead her to the room. Continue making out again as soon as you close the door, and if all is done properly you should find yourself on the bed in a short enough time period.

Hope this helps,
~GQute

well yes they do talk.. but i have never apologized but i soon became known to girls i dont even know, to just hook up. see tha can be the problem, every girl knows you and if can be hard to advance in different social groups. thats a drawback. but some girls go for you more if they know you get around more. that is the positive

whenever im caught, i just tell them i enjoy high school, and if im not dating im casual with people and i tell them that to. keeps me looking better not sleezy

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dont even think just do it!

im still fuzzy...so lets say me and a girl are flirting alot, strong kino, i should just guide her to the back room myself and if she questions where we're going say something clever such as the aforementioned "to take about politics...duh"

to be honest im not exactly comfortable doing that just yet, are there any alternatives for isolating her in the back room away from all the other people in the party...obviosuly shell assume we're giong back there to hook up but i dont want o tocme off so strong.



besides that, once we're in the back room and i shut the door, i feel like it would be a really awkward transition is i just turned around and looked deep into her eyes, any move recomendations?

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"Can't be afraid to gamble"

ok thats ok i agree what i do is a little bold for some people thats quit alright. you can start off if you want by working for a kiss before you go to a room so she doesnt feel as awkward and its not as risky, or even just getting a full hug outa her through just little flirting games. just tell her to go with you to get a drink or something that is semi private, but not in a different room. but if she is constantly giving you IOIs (a wait for a physical IOI like she touches me or get closer or something) bringing her to a room will be fine, trust me if she goes even as far as just touching your clothes and complimenting on them its kinda a good time to go.

once you do i typically dont wait to long to make a move, just so things arnt awkward and so u dont over think. i typically would just give her a compliment without a neg so i show more interest since you are private. i would grab her hand and say "your hands are real soft" and just squeeze and see if she sqeezes back. then when she does use a small neg followed by more kino. just go with what happens for the most part every girl is different in personality and what will work for her, but most girls tend to like guys to take control, so take the initiative, other wise you could really miss a good chance


mR.e

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dont even think just do it!