i was wondering what i should do if i was setting up a date and called her and asked her if she was aviable on a certain date and she said no, and when i might give another option she still say's she cant

just let it pass?

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Organise something with more of your people, friends ets.. and let her know she should go to that because it is going to be really fun, and make sure it is! if she goes just try to be the centre of attention yourself and see how she reacts. If she makes it is already showing you interest

Londonfire has some good points...Asking her for options puts her into control.

Many times if they already have plans that evening, they will even invite me to whatever is going on. But if the girl flakes you on two different date options, move on...she is wasting your time...

Better to cut your lose early and get something else going on that day instead of waiting on some girl to give you an answer. If the say they will get back to you, give her one day and not more to get back with you on an answer otherwise plan accordingly. Some people would suggest that even a day is too long to get an answer back, do whatever works for you.

Best,

J-Dub

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Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

Yeah, I must add I am not a big fan of dates, gives girls a massive power rush and then they start feeling that you are all over them.. not a good start. I personaly preffer to casually invite her to your territory like if you didn't care whether she comes or not.

That way you are complimenting her very subtly because you are communicating something like "hey, I find you rather cool so you are okay to come out with me and my friends to do the stuff I normally do" and also you won't come across as needy because you have a life already, if she is interested she will go and even if she genuinily can't make it she would show you interest if she really fancies you.

My opinion anyways.

Bless

Ps, leave dates for after the sex!

just tell them you are going somewhere and they are invited to tag along.... don't organize together.
you are going anyway wether she tags along or not, dating gives too much power don't let her organize.

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if she says no on different options then yeah she isnt interested, thats why i like to text the same text to like 4 girls and see what each one replies and then set up a day and time. this way i learn what different responds will be and i know what i did wrong