Guys im fairly proficient at PU now, find it fairly easy to pick girls up but very little experience with dating/dealing with hot birds after we ve been on a few dates. After dating a whole string of hotties Ive found this one girl..we've dated quite a few times now and had sex. Now the sex was once and very much under the influence and am sure it wasnt the most classy/memoriable occasion for both of us.
Now i dont wana say the GF word, but this one is naturally gorgeous and is fun to be with so naturally i wana spend some more time with her. I guess im looking for abit of relationship management advice.

Heres the deal. When we went out last week, cant remeber how this came up but she said "We dont need to play silly games on eachother anymore". So ever since ive kinda just tried to be more chilled laid back. We ve both parted our different ways for xmas and wont see eachother till after new year now. Now in the meantime obviously my phone is my friend and only way to contact (except fbook). Ive been txting her but shes been taking longer to txt back and i said last night that is i could i was guna give her a bell this evening. She txt back so she knew the call was coming. Call her-no pickup. Txt her telling her to call for some chat. No call/txt. I know its xmas and ppl r busy but seriously?!

Is she still playing games despite what she said? Should i freeze her out for a few days? I know the very true sentiment: 'Girls want space first, closeness later. Guys opposite' is true and maybe applies here?does she just want her space?should i lay off?(i.e. freeze out)??

Im just concerned that it doesnt fizzle out over the next few weeks of us being apart for xmas/new year. How to keep her hot for such a time whilst not be able to see her/chat on the phone?

Solo

sure you can't chat on the phone? girls love phone sex... just tell her to close her eyes, direct her what to do and what to think about... and ask her occasionally "and where are your fingers now?" )

Don't suppose there's a guide somewhere on what to say ? Some of us would be lost in that situation :L

Don't want to hijack Solo's thread but here are a few pointers:

- I tell them they can feel free to touch themselves anywhere except "your pussy" | "down there"... of course I let them get to it eventually, but girls love anticipation.

- sometimes after she's done, I tell her that I gotta run now but to keep on thinking about what she'd like to do to me in person. Sometimes I make them promise to do that.

but if you want a real guide, I guess there must be one somewhere ($$) by one of these famous dating/PUA gurus - seems there are enough of these guys on the web nowadays.