I went through a tragic ending with my girlfriend...ask me if you want but im not here to vent unless you truly need to hear where im coming from. we broke up a month ago. since then ive hooked up with 2 girls but i just cannot feel the same. i mean i have no sexual desire for these girls, yeah they're good looking but i just feel worse hooking up with them. i don't get it, usually after breakups your innergame has shut down, but mine is..numb? i feel sad..but i can still manage to pick girls up. hooking up with girls just lowers my confidence. i don't know what to do..im stuck.

any advice would be helpful..i haven't heard much from my ex except she's seeing another dude. i let her go from my life, trying to improve mine but it just isnt right. and yes i excercise a ton, i go out with friends, and such.

Maybe the girls you've been with just arent what you're looking for, yeah you say they look good but if you dont connect with them on an emotional level then you're just seeing them as a fuckbuddy, no wonder you dont feel the same way anymore!

There's always an ex girlfriend that set the standard for you and not many girls will live up to that standard, but you will run into another girl some day that will blow that standard through the fucking roof and you will feel what you used to again. Just keep sarging and don't LOOK for that girl and you will run into her eventually..meanwhile just try to have fun dumping your load every now and then with girls that are okay with that (dont pretend to really like them, be honest about it).

You'll feel better soon bro dont worry!

Chillburg