Lastnight I was sitting down talking to my friends, waiting for more women to enter the club, and this woman sits down next to me. I negged her by saying "So do you go to clubs by yourself or something?" and she said "No, I'm here with my husband" who was no where to be found, so i just ignored it and kept doing my routine. She was really into me, and then her husband walks up and just stands next to her (cuz there was no more room in the booth) and just stands there and takes it. So she precedes to tell me this is his last weekend before he leaves for Iraq(Cuz he was in the Army), so he walks away, and goes to the bar to drink I guess. My friends get antsy to leave, so I tell her we are going to go to this park in a couple of days and asked her if she'd like to tag along. She said yes, and gave me her number.

How do I go about handling this? Is it wrong to do what I did?

do what you wanna do, im not gonna stop ya but i will share with you that fact that i have been with 2 married women in my life, and both have come back to bite me in the ass, the first one caused me to lose one of the greatest friends ive ever had, we are cool about now, it but things will never be the same between us, the other womens husband is still looking for me after 7 years, man i must tell you it really sucks having to look over my shoulder everywhere i go when i visit that town.

also ive been on the other side of the fence and have experienced losing a LTR due to someone my ex cheated with. so ive seen both sides of the coin.

im not trying to be the moral police here, its your thing im just sharing with you how i feel after i had my fun.


ask yourself this, is she worth it? is this a LTR thing or just a hit it and quit it? are you prepared to deal with the consequences, this can be some risky territory, remember people do sometimes get killed for this shit, this scenario is as old as the beginning of time. personally i feel its bad karma to game some dudes wife while hes fighting for our country. thats my 2 cents as they say.

Skittlepimp

Yea, I think I'll just not call her and leave them be. She was a blonde 8.5, so it's not like she was even a 10 or anything. And besides, my conscience would get to me, especially since he's fighting in the war. But what I dont get is that she was only a sophomore in college and her husband is like 22 or 23. It's a very young age to get married, and besides, why would a newly married couple even go to a club?

so many people get married at a young age without ever seeing what all is really out there, they settle for what they have because they sometimes feel like they wont be loved by anyone else or that they cant attract anyone else, which is totally false but it happens alot, we all have the advantage here and realize there are other fish in the sea, personally i dont believe in marriage, btw...(dont ever tell a chick you dont believe in marriage, i found out the hard way) My father is a retired district attorney and hes been married 6 different times, anyways im straying from the topic. as young people get married and theyve been with that one person theyve known all their life they sometimes have buyers remorse when they realize that there were more options that they had, but they chose to settle for what was convenient at the time. they get bored with that other person eventually, i saw on penn and teller bullshit(a fav show of mine that i recommend to everyone) that 50% of all marriages fail. shit just ask my dad lol... at least he had the convenience of knowing the laws.


also feel free to do your thing, i mean i wasnt trying to discourage a pua, i just wanted to tell you what you might need to expect if you decide to go that route.
anyways thats my rant for now

skittlepimp

let me put it this way for you. I live in san diego where we have tons and tons of marine wives and a few of which i know purposely. i'd say at least 1/3 of them are not faithful and the reason most of them become marine wives is because they have the freedom to do what the hell they want to when their husband is away on tour and generally they never say anything to their husbands about it.

Normally if it was any other situation I'd say to stay away but she's one of those marine wives who didn't marry the guy for commitment.

Go for it but just make sure that you don't hang around bars where marines frequent but she'll already know that as it seems like she's a pro.

Think about it.. her husband came up to you two and she told you he was leaving on tour and he took it like a total tool.... there's nothing to worry about here.. have fun