About 6 months ago I met a girl that I really like. I know what you are going to say, that I have oneitis. And you are right, but so what I like this one and I want her..... By the way I am also seeing other girls, but I just cant seem to forget this one.

So back to the story..
We sort of run in the same social group so we see each other at least a few times a week, and we have also been hanging out just the two of us. She is definetly attracted to me. She gives me tons of IOIs, she is always hugging and kissing me on the cheek. At parties she is always all over me, and cant takes her hands of me.

A couple of days after I kissed her(on the lips) for the first time, I invited her over to my place. But out of the blue she said that she also was interested in this other guy in our social circle.

I have seen her talk to this other guy a few times, but I have never seen them touch each other, and she is definetly not all over him like she is with me. I have talked to her friends and they all say that she likes me, but she also really likes the other guy.

So whats the deal?? Is she using me to make the other guy jealous?? Have I waited too long to make my move, and am now in the dreaded friend-zone?

The last few weeks I have been using the freeze out to get out of the friend zone, by not including her in the conversations and not giving her the attention that she is used to get from me. I havent called or text her for two weeks. I can tell she is very upset about this, but she has not caved yet...

So here is my question. Do I continue with the freezout and keep DHV, and hope that gets me out of the friendzone??

PS. I read in another thread with a related problem that instead of trying to pull her in I should try and push her towards the other guy. By saying stuff like 'well you are probably better off with the other guy, you couldnt handle me anyway' . Has anyone field tested this strategy???

I have said stuff like "You guys suit each other", " Awww you are both the same height and everything" . She looked kinda shocked that i was saying those things and i guess it shows lack of interest.

Push her out for a little while longer. The next time you give her attention, she will e anticipating something amazing will come out of your mouth, that's when you focus all the attention towards the both of them. If he's around call him over or tell her that you hae told him about her feelings. Watch her reaction