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You are supposed to be the alpha male you're not supposed to beg for attention you're supposed to be the one all of the girls are begging for attention from! Just my oppinion, i've been wrong before...
actually I think you are right on the money... and that is a great way to put it, it truly does feel like all the girls are begging for your attention. On nights when you have just about every beautiful girl in the club doing that, it is an insane feeling. In fact it may be a snowball effect, because nothing boosts your confidence like when some hot girls start doing that. And then the ball just starts rolling...
but if you are the Alpha Male, it doesn't matter what you wear really. Or your haircut. Also interestingly enough, I wouldn't say it doesn't matter about your mood but what I will say there are 2 moods that I've noticed that girls respond to. (1) Good mood... obviously this works best.... but also (2) a little angry looking / don't mess with me... of course I don't strive to be in such a mood but occasionally it happens for one reason or another and I always marvelled that girls would respond to that too (I mean in terms of noticing you, staring at you, repeated glances and such)... they don't really usually approach you when you are in this state
being Alpha Male is not all roses though, you have to deal with shit sometimes. Of course being Alpha Male you can handle it lol, ok a few examples:
1) sometimes I will have guys come up to me, be friendly, but very soon say something like "that girl over there is my buddy's girl". Usually if this happens the girl is definitely hotter than the other girls in the place. Weird thing is this happens sometimes before I even look at the girl - it is because she has been checking me out already... and the guys feel threatened I guess
2) In the summer the guy next to me at the bar chatted me up and was friendly, but then says "when I first saw you..." (i.e. 3 mins before) "I wanted to kill you"... hmm, well ok... worst thing about this was I was just getting a drink, this guy wasted my time and the hot blonde further down the bar that was totally wanting to get to know me better, had disappeared by the time I had finished with this guy.