Quick rundown:

Two years ago I was a AFC fresh out of a divorce. I developed my inner game and some how created a completely different personality instead of melding my old with my new.

I didnt even realize it until recently when a girl I was dating told me that I was two faced and not in the bad way. She tried to explain that I had a personality when I was out with friends and a completely different one when I was alone with her. I had different body language, tone of voice, and attitude. De-javu, I had been told this before by another girl that I dated in the past.

It kinda scared me to think that I might have two personalities. If they're working together to maintain healthy relationships with girls, it cant be that bad, right? Especially if the girls themselves say its a good thing, because we all know girls are better at realizing things then us guys.

So, the question at hand. Is it normal to have two completely different personalities? Also, am I the only person to experience this?

Bleu

I'm not sure to what extent you mean by "2 different personalities". But I have had alot of friends who tend to act different around girls or other people. I myself am like that currently, I act differently around people who I feel more comfortable towards. I have some old friends from a while ago, and even though now I'm alot more open towards everyone, I still tend to be withdrawn with them as when I first met them I was really kind of withdrawn at times, so when I see them occasionally it's like that old "shy/withdrawn" mindframe comes back to me and it's really hard to fight it. Thats one of the main reasons I don't go out sarging with them now.

To answer your question, I wouldn't be too worried about it, unless like the 2 personalities conflict with each other or something. However, I would suggest taking them both and kinda combining them eventually, so instead of acting different around some girls and some guys, you can have a general outlook and set of reactions towards everyone.
If this isn't making sense it's cause the alcohol has kicked in by now...hopefully cause I'm really bored.

I would only worry when your 2nd personality progresses into a bloody murdering psychopath with a death wish and bad credit.

i wouldn't call it 2 different personalities. i'd call it 2 different dimensions of your personality. I had a similar experience. I'd act different with my friends, and different with girls. I've been trying to mesh everything together and learn just to act in any way that i feel like acting. but no, i dont think it's a problem, it's completely normal

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i have 3 one for work life, one for home life, one for social life different names and different syles 2

I wouldn't call it 2 personalities but rather you ACT differently around your buddies than your girlfriend/wife, etc. But I wouldn't call that a change in personality. A change in your personality is a change in your identity.

You see this type of behavior all the time. A dog acts differently at home (more protective) than when at the park off leash (more playful and less protective), not that their personalities change, they just act different in a different environment.

So don't read into it too much and just have fun.

Best,

J-Dub

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