So I just got out of break-up and I'm taking everyones advice from the relationship forum and moving on. I live in Colorado, where I attend college and a girl from back home I met out here does as well. In the beginning of my freshman year I was dating my ex (with whom I just broke up with) when I was at a party with this girl from my hometown. IMO she is a hb9 but she has everything I look for in a girl and for other gys might be a hb 7 or 8. Anyway I was at this party with her and it was pretty obvious she wanted to get with me, I left the party when she wasn't looking and called my girl to come get me. She asked me where I went later that night, and I can't remember what I said, something about being drunk.

Now christmas break is looming in a day or so and we're both going home, on Facebook chat I got her number and said we should catch up. I just want to know if getting a number on FB chat is legitimate, and even though I got it a few days ago, was planning on calling the week after the weekend she get's home (she'll want to see her friends I'm sure) and seeing about a date. My phone game is money, and I'm pretty confident I could close this girl, but I just am not sure if getting a number on FB chat is a legit way of doing things?

Hey mate,

In a lot of scenario's, getting a number off of facebook isn't legit at all. But your circumstance is different. You've known this girl for ages, you are enrolled at the same post secondary institution, she IOI'd the shit out of you at a party..c'mon. You've obviously DHV'd and primed her, and you've been seemingly congruent.

If you're talking with a girl on fb chat who you've only met a couple of times, or worse, never met at all..and you request her number, that's a little more iffy.

You have it down, just make sure you control the frame while you're talking with her over the phone. You say that your phone game is tight. Hey, you have nothing to worry about. All the best mate

-Que-