| There are different kinds of hypnosis, direct, indirect, covert, overt.
NLP is generally covert, direct hypnosis. Direct because you are giving them instructions, covert because they are being hypnotised without their knowledge.
Conversational Hypnosis is covert, indirect hypnosis. It is this way because it is very ordinary conversation that relies on implication and association. Conversational Hypnosis is about far more than the Milton Model, which is a breakdown of specific language tools.
Speed Seduction is heavily geared towards Conversational Hypnosis. What isn't explicitly mentioned by any SS gurus is how conversational it is meant to sound like. Rarely have I heard an example or a pattern that didn't sound weird. There's so much you can be doing all the time throughout conversation that makes the explicit SS tools redundant.
What I mean is that rather than running an incredible connection pattern on someone, it is far more useful and smoother if you talk, in such a way that you are building a connection, the same as you would before knowing language pattern. Rather than robotically run through a pattern for connection (even if it's improvised, it can still seem robotic, and easily overdone), why not actually connect with them?
All of the SS stuff works, but you just gotta stop thinking laterally. So you wanna first build intrigue? Then comfort and connection? Then arousal? Brilliant. You know what the pattern are supposed to be doing so let's figure out our own ways of doing it. I wonder how subtle, and covert you can make it...
Say something intugueing or maybe behave a certain way. Good.
Speak comfortably, connecting on different things she has to say and letting her do the same. Good.
Start slowing down, giving her flirtatious looks. Good.
That's your basic premise, now let's use the language patterns to pepper it, using implication and association. Remember, we're looking for efficiency and economy. We want what's most effective. Most of the time, language patterns arent. It's only the principles you need to concern yourself with.
As time goes by, when you have a grip on what you're doing you can focus more on specific language tricks and that, but for now, just try to understand the principles and finding your own applications for a handful of the language patterns.
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