C&F - After im done with you it will be 1 thats if you keep behaving like you are now ( You can even role play this and have her picture it etc..)

You can even tell her a secret you will be # 1 shhh keep on The DL
Whats 9 x 9 = oh 69 thats if im counting you

Whatever the answer make sure its funny

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My answer to this question.....

HB: how many women have you slept with.....

Me: Enough that I know how to satisfy you, IF you are that lucky;)

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Oh.....yeah...do that and see what happens.....it'll fuckin spread like wildfire and not in a good way >_>

Trust me, I know


As for me, if I were asked by people I dont know.........I'd (from now on) just say "It doesn't really matter now, does it?" seeing as its a personal thing that others dont need to know.

I just say 6... consistently

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A great lawyer knows the judge.
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PM88: Giving her any number is considered qualifying..... Fuck giving her an answer, she doesnt need to know.

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KC, I've been in the game a while. I know what qualifying is.

When I've gotten to that point in time with her in C2 or C3, when we're really into each other and comfortable asking those questions, it's OK to show some vulnerability, turn off game, and just be yourself. It's actually important to do so.

I agree with Mystery. If I'm going through all the trouble to attract and build comfort, I'm not just going to sleep with her once, I'm going to sleep with her multiple times and build a relationship. I don't like one night stands.

A good PUA, doesn't follow the book exactly and stops analyzing while in set. Otherwise we'd all be carbon copies saying the same negs all over the world - which happens with newbies. After time, you'll learn how and when to bend the rules, drop the gambits and be your own man with the skills you've internalized.

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A good lawyer knows the law.
A great lawyer knows the judge.
Be the latter.

PM88, your answer made sense. Eventually, the game does go away after initial seduction esspeciallyif you are looking for a Regular GF. However, I prefer to hold off on the emotions until at least the forth or fifth date. But thats only a personal preference.

I was wrong. There is more than one way to successfully close a chick down.

+ 5 respect

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I'm talking more about the first time you're hanging out with her and her friends... if you're playing a drinking game or whatever this might come up as one of the questions. I don't think one answer works for everyone so just come up with something in advance, internalize it so you can look cool when it does come up in a social setting.

If this ever comes up again, I would LOVE to just raise my eyebrows and ask, "Today?" and wait for people to laugh. Then just let it slide. It's a cool, confident thing to say and everyone knows the answer is "Enough."

I would always C/F the first question, then give a real (well, as real as she's gonna get) the second time.

Her: How many people have you slept with?

Me: (start counting on my fingers) "5, 10, 15 20, 40, 50..."

Her: (laughing) Stop it! Seriously...

Me: Well, it's enough to know that I'm not going to answer that question, just like you shouldn't answer it for me either....but it is SO cute that you want to know so badly! (as I grab her in for a playful hug or whatever)

Done.

Awesome stuff right here. I think combining all the ideas would could be ultra-effective.

1. "Today?" With a super-serious look on your face.
2. "Oh you mean all time..." start counting on your fingers then run out.
3. "{insert outrageously huge number}.5, I met a fiery midget on the coast one passionate evening."
4. "Lets just say I have had sex with enough." Shows confidence.

to summerize you can:

she: how many girls you slept with?
you: today?
she: no, (iterrupt her and say: this week, this month?) in your life!
you: enough to know how to give a woman the best time of her life. But why are you asking me such a question? If you want to know something about my sex life, you should rather ask me, what was the max number of orgasms you ever gave to a women in one night or one hour, or something like that .

With this you can go into sexual talk, cuz we know there is no sex without talking about sex. It also depends at what stage are you with the girl, and how comfortable are you discussing sex with her.

IF she asks you question like that, she is obviously thinking about having sex with you.

i reckon one could use a combination of the posted approaches.

Girl: How many have you been with?

Guy: [leading her on] Oh boy, i haven't been asked this question in a while.

[begin counting slowly with your right hand]

[slowly transition to the left hand]

[think hard]

"Including today?"

Girl: [laughs, plays along] Yeah, OK hot shot, including today.

Guy: [checks watch] I can't say approximately. It's only 11:00. The night is young.

*on the off-chance that she persists and says not to include today, you just nag her about being too nosy.


another one that takes a little more confidence and the right attitude to pull off:

Girl: How many have you been with?

Guy: Around...oh....6.....That I DIDN'T pay for.

That's a dangerous one and would only work if you've already established with her that you're not the kind of guy to pay for sex.

She might follow up with a laugh and "Wait, have you ever done that?"

in which case you can neg her about shit like "oh my god, i can't believe you actually think i would do something like that. i thought we were connecting; i thought you knew me. etc etc"

haven't field tested these yet, but i reckon they're pretty bullet-proof.

Just say a number under 10 and then say "Girlfriends, for the most part."

It'll make her more comfortable while letter her know you dont mind fucking around.

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Me: Lets see... can i borrow your phone please?

Girl: Why?

Me: It's got a calculator on it doesn't it?

Girl: ahahaha

Me: I'm serious i need to use your phone.

Hopefully she hands it over

Me: Woops that's contacts not calculator...oh you know so and so she's #(choose wisely).

Girl: haha, whatever!

Me: By the way i added my number in there if you wanted to be a part of teh equation.

Never actually tried this before but it just popped into my head. What yall think?

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