I met this HB8, in one of my classes, sits one seat down from my friend, I noticed her so I started talking to her. She was a kind of just that class thing, I would neg her every now and then, some C/F here and there. So one day I decided to step it up, and actually go for it.

I started doing it all right, then she brought up something on the weekend, so I playfully said that I would do it with her, then she says I don't have your number so I give it to her.

I get home, about ten minutes after I'm there, I get a txt from her saying
HB8:"Hey, baby"
Me: "oh who could this be"
HB8: Oh not [her name]
Me: oh good i got neverous

From then on it kind of went playfully me throwing a little more C/F in there, she knew i was kidding. Then that night I was still talking to her and I start going into it, and she says she "loves me" but i guess in a playful way. I made her promise to be telling the truth and she promised.

Thought I was in, next few days I'm txting her, we're supposed to hangout at this party but she decides shes staying in for the night. So im like whatever, doesn't matter. But then the party happened to be down the block from her house so I tell her to come and she agrees. So about an hour later i tell her to come, but shes says shes goin out? Shes going to another party, so I shrug it off again.

Next few days im still txting her, her txts start to get less playful but I keep up the pace and get her back. Class comes back around and shes not throwing any IOI's at all, me being very confused I start talking and she won't sit next to me but kind of in a playful way. So Im txting her now, need some advice on what to do next in class, and how to txt her to qualify herself.

Obviously i could be wrong but it sounds like her interest is fading a bit, one time everything seemed great with a girl one day then the next she was just silent with me, felt like i was making all the effort. What worked with me was going back to square one, hold off on the texts and when you see her pretend you've forgotten who she is or whatever, use a lot of C/F but ignore her too because you need to make her work for it, now she's used to your attention and she's gotten used to it; take it away and seem casual about it, see if that works!
Good luck with that! Let me know how it works out

to be honest i dont like how you made her promise that she loved you. it sounds a bit needy like you NEED to know that she does.

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It wasnt much of a needy promise, i kind of just made her stop playing games, and then she admitted it.

But I did freeze her out today, and she kind of tried to initiate conversation. I needed help with some spanish script that I asked my friend to help me with, and she quickly volunteered to help me although the request wasn't even pointed in her direction. I denied her help but she grabbed the paper out of my hand and wanted to help. I have no idea if thats her trying to gain my attention back completely, but I did stop txting her and actually talking to her for more than 2 minutes.

yeah that sounds like it to me, just keep freezing her out but be careful not to completely block her out. throw her some attention occasionaly like a neg or something but until she's pretty much begging for it or she's texting you every few seconds just leave it

Talked to her a little today because my friend was and she sucked me into the conversation, I negged here or there but she doesnt seem to be responding to C/F. Should I switch off freezing her out or just do it all together and for how long?

hmm well i'm not really an expert so I'm not saying rely on what I say because I could be an epic fail! But there're a few ways you could try and resolve it, always risky game is trying to make her jealous? But that's very touchy ground. But if she sees you talking to other girls and paying more attention to them than you that might evoke the same feelings as when she wanted your attention more than vice versa originally.
I don't think going back to doing nothing will solve anything that'll just faze it out over time. SO! Hypothetically if i was in the situation I'd probably freeze her out more so, but try not to make it seem pissy or childish make it seem like you're too busy for her. I'd do things like text other people instead of her and let her know it, but like I said THE worst things to do are seem clingy or immature, make out like you're rising above it while just not

Yea I felt a little like it being childish but to a certain extent. Were in a secluded class with not that many girls, and she specifically said she doesnt get jealous. Even though I told her she gets jealous everyone does. So the jealousy thing mite not work. Also my friend that sits next to me, un-intentionally cock blocks, and i don't say anything because he has no idea im trying to game her, like hes completely clueless, everyone is, even her lol. I don't make it obvious at all.

Another thing that happened was I was talking to her and my friend left, so there was an open space, I pulled her chair next to me, but she got up and moved back. I played it like oh is it like that? I see how it is. But when she moved back she turned to me and had all her attention devoted to what I was saying. This girl is very unpredictable and it's throwing me off completely.