Folks,

After my 2 year relationship I’m a little unpractised, to be quite frank up until 4 days ago I didn’t realise communities like this one actually existed. Feels a little comforting to have an outlet for all my questions since my friends are no hopers when it comes to the opposite sex. Anyway that’s by-the-by.

I need help making an approach on a girl at work; we work on the same floor, for the same account but never have any real contact. We often pass each other at work and a polite smile is about all I can master. Unfortunately I no longer have the luxury of choosing my battles, I can either wait it out and hope we bump into each other on a break (I don't believe in 'fate' I do prefer to make things happen), or I can make an approach while roaming the halls. As a side note I’ve been working in the building for 5 years so know pretty much everyone in the place.

Kind regards
Daedalis

I'm planning on doing the same thing tomorrow or at least this week.

I'm planning to take her to one side and isolate her. This must be done in isolation.

Then I'm just gonna SHOOT the shit and act like her answer doesn't bother me. I'm going to say...

"Hey can I speak to you for a second...Come over here... You know I have a confession to make. I've noticed you around and I wanted to ask out for maybe coffee or something. You know... so we can get to know each other a little better. What do you say?"

If she says yes/maybe... say something like..

"yeah that's cool, and maybe if you're REALLY REALLY good we can get some ben and jerry's choc chip ice-cream to share as well.... So let me get your number... Cool I look forward to it."



I don't even have a back up to if she says 'no' or she has a boyfriend. I simply BELIEVE in myself 100%!

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You guys should be prepared to lose your jobs if you are attempting to sarge at work. I don't recommend sarging at work at all.

Now the better approach would be make woman friends at work. Go to happy hour with them and meet their girlfriends (who don't work at the same place as you do).

Remember, don't shit where you eat...you have your job and possibly your future at risk here. Nobody wants to hire someone who has a sexual harrasment charge from a previous job.

Best,

J-Dub

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Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.