Okay guys, this is for the folks that want to either have a sexual relationship, or an emotional relationship. This is either or. You may be wondering what the difference here is... WELL ITS A GOOD THING IM WRITING THIS THEN HUH?



Sexual Relationship: You're trying to have sex. You just want to have sex and you want it quickly. You don't want her to be texting you all the time writing you sweet little love notes. You want to fuck.

Emotional Relationship: You want a relationship. You want someone you can hold, someone you can talk to and share your emotions with. You want someone who is like you and loves you just as much as you love them. You want someone you can make love to. You want to love.



Now first off, both obviously have their positives and their negatives. There's an absurd rumor going around that PUAs are all players and just want to fuck every woman possible. This isn't exactly true. In my opinion, you've won "The Game" when you've found someone you truly love. This seems to be pluralistic ignorance, where PUAs will all say, "Yeah I just learned it so I can fuck a lot of bitches". Most of them are thinking inside that the amount of women they fuck don't really get them anywhere, but they decide that it is a plus.



To sexually attract: Create tension. Talk about sex. Use heavy body contact (other than hands). Tease a lot. Neg. Bold how strong of a person you are.

To emotionally attract: Call her sweet names. Talk about your common traits. Use a lot of hand contact on hands and arms. Tease lightly. Smile a lot. Cuddle.




This isn't exactly a tactic but an exaggeration that there are two different kinds of attraction. If you aren't planning on getting in a relationship, don't emotionally attract. If you do this its nothing but manipulation and you're leading her on. Isn't that exactly what you hated in high school, when girls led you on?



Sexual attraction is suited for fucking, at best creating a fuck-buddy.

Emotional attraction is suited for relationships, at best creating a wife.



You decide where you want to go.

-- Manna

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Doubling your losses, you will not attract anyone and will repel any female watching.

I find that your reply doesn't have any logical proof behind it. I've been doing this two years.

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Should I be impressed? How many women have confided in you after witnessing one of these scenes?

zip ... zilch ... zero
yep ... none
That's right, you have no clue what women really think when they see a PUA making a spectacle of himself. You're better off being manipulative - exactly what you despise.

No.

I'm simply stating there are too different psychological ladders that women put themselves on with a man, and I'm trying to tell people not to go for emotional appeal if they're going to do nothing but fuck them and leave them.

Leave them better than you found them.

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Interesting insights _Manna_!

What you say is true.
sexual attraction = fuck-buddy
emotional attraction = GF material

A combination of these two attraction types is best though. Sexual attraction only accounts for a limited amount of time and is easily breakable. Emotional attraction is less exciting but will last much longer! If you combine the two, you will create an exciting strong bond between the two of you free from any commitments.

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