I've been doing pua under Brad P.'s program seriously for about 8 months. I've gotten quite serious with a few girls but they were just little flings for sex that went no where.

About two months ago I met a girl and ever since we've been pretty crazy about each other. I'm in love with her ( I haven't told her this), and shes in love with me.

Though, there is a huge dilemma.

She was single when we got together, but she was coming out of a two year relationship in which she was not completely over her previous boyfriend. They still talk on occasion and the only thing that broke them up was distance. I know part of her still sees them getting together in the future and this is really standing in my way.

Last night she told me that she was falling in love with me and couldn't do this with me anymore. She did not intend for things to get this serious with me and doesn't know how to handle the situation.

Not entirely sure how to handle things I accepted this and thought I would just move on.
I couldn't get a wink of sleep last night, her face haunted me and I put myself though every emotion trying to figure out the situation when I came to the realization that I have not control over anything in this.

I know if she were forced to make a decision right now between the two of us, it would be him.

How do I make this girl fall harder for me to the point that this guy just becomes a memory and she wants to be with me.





I've never been much of a romantic, but I know that I really love this girl, and couldn't imagine life without her.

You know man this is a tough one. In my experience when a girl is hung up on another dude it can be very difficult to change her mind. I believe it all starts at the beginning when you first meet her. You have a small window of opportunity to make an impression on a woman. How tight your game is from the start will determine how much she likes you. Can you still game her and get her to like you more? Maybe, but this is why I say first impressions are the most important.

You could try and just let her go for a bit. It will be painful but you have to be strong. Tell her you feel that she isn't over her ex and you want to give her space until she figures it out. Tell her you're going to date other people. I know it sounds counter intuitive but the less needy you are the more respect and attraction you will get from her. Not having you will force her to think about you more. And if she lets you go that easy than it probably would have never been a solid relationship anyway.