Hi Guys,

I went to the club yesterday and I was talking to these 2 girls, later on I was talking to a other blond girl. Then these 2 girls I was talking to earlier walked by and said I was a player.
I responded that they were just friends I knew. Any comments on how to respond or avoid that sitiation??

Thanks guys

Well unless you left a very bad impression in the first set, they shouldnt be "coming by" and ruining your other interactions.

There is jst one easy solution though: "Dont appear to be a player".

Ill tell u a story about yesterday night. I was a bit drunk, but these girls had been looking at me forever. So one of them (to whom I gave a friendly IOI) comes and asks for my #. One of her friends comes by(a bit hotter) and starts flirting with me she goes for the k-close, I backed up a bit, but I really didnt know what to do in this position. I gave her a "half a kiss" and then told her to get out of there in a friendly way(they were leaving). The other girl got upset and called me a ManSlut. So I lost both girls for the price of one. lol

Anyway back to the point
- If a girl calls u player, no biggie. Answer with a big smile "What u guys cant handle players ". Or something along those lines. ReFrame!

Be cocky and funny...

"It's a curse. Because of this I can't seem to meet the right woman"

Not that, but something along those lines..

Weird thing about women. If they are into you, it doesn't matter if they think you are a player or not. Sometimes when women say things like "you're a player" it is really just their way of saying "I know you are a player, I know you are gaming me, but I like it and I'm still going to fuck you". They just want you to know that they know you are trying to sleep with them, it really doesn't affect their decision to sleep with you or not. What affects that is how smooth and confident you are, and how well you can get her into an emotional/instinctive level (non-cerebral).

Lol I was on my first night sarging on Friday and one of the 2 sets I opened asked me if I had ever seen "The pickup artist"" show...
I honestly told her I hadn't (its true I never watched the show).. then teased her and her friend for thinking I was a PUA.

The whole time I'm thinking to myself "I'm not a player.. I'm still in training"
Ironic for my very first night approaching women... still even managed to #-close one of them

Thanks guys 4 the feedback, I like the cocky funny responses, I'll use those when it happens again. Game on