Me and my GF have been going out for 5months and have a good trustworthy relationship. I'm going to my grandfather's funeral in another town about 3hours away and she wants to do something tonight. So she says she is going to the movies with a friend of hers. She talks about him often but I haven't met him yet. It sounds to me that he likes her and he doesn't have a GF. I don't know if this is right? It doesn't feel rigth to me. I just have a weird feeling about this guy. She seems to like him in a friend way but I KNOW men. They only want one thing. Please help me get this situation into context???

Trust your instincts. If you think it might be some sparks (mutual) between your gf and her friend but it might be correct. I suggest that you propose that all 3 of you, or even in some bigger crowd go out together. Have fun, let them drink few drinks, you be totally relaxed, make them feel comfortable, don`t be protectfull about your gf, that night act like she is you friend, not gf. If there are any feelings between them, or only his towards her, you should be able to notice that. In relaxed SPAM they can send IOI`s and you can notice that if you know what to look for. After that, decision on action taking is on you!

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Oh dude I have plenty of experience with this sort of thing. Trust me the guy is probably only a friend! DON'T lose your composure! Be cool with it and just let her go out with the guy. Yes we all know what the guy wants but it probably isn't what your girlfriend wants. You are just letting your feelings get the best of you.

Here is what I do when my gf has a good guy friend. I actually will talk the guy up and tell her it's cool that she has a great guy friend. I will then also joke about how I know as a guy that he really just likes her and wants to get some. I then joke that maybe she should try it and give the poor guy a little action. LOL! She will see how secure you are in the relationship and trust me THAT IS ATTRACTIVE! Remember to come across as cool and secure about it.

id agree with marco polo here, if ur instincts tell you there is something weird 99% of the times there is. Now here is the tricky part even though you know something could happen you have to play it cool like silverback said dont worry about it if she cheats its her problem and for no fucking reason you should get MAD cause it wasnt gonna work anyways. What you can do is change yourself and do fun stuff without your girlfriend but with some friends. If you do this She might wanna spend more time with you and forget about any other guys and will be constantly thinking (investing more by thinking) in the relationship. Dont give in everytime she says ooh but i love you!! keep your frame and because she said she loves you it doesnt mean you gonna give her everything she wants whenever she wants it.
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Never tell a girl that she cant go out with him or that..

she should and will already know the do's and dont's in a relationship..
she knows she aint supposed to go out with him... She wants you so to say "dont fucking go out with him.. il go kick his ass"... Of course, when you do, you'll drop value....

Just play it cool.. say "whatever, just make sure you dont eat chili right before, so you aint gonna fart, when u sit next to him... you would so embarrass him"

Of course, say this with a smile ...

She wont even notice the movie, or the guy.. she will be thinking "why those he act like that??"... and she will regret haven gone to the teather, if the guys tries any funny business he will get a big NO...

of course, this is best case scenario.. aint sure how it's gonna work..
depends how alpha she knows you are...

PS: This is just my two cents.. but i just think it's not alpha to tell your girl "dont do that, dont be friends with him ect"
If she is complaining about some friends, i just say "hey, you choose who you want to be friends with..." and if she does do something with the guy you just dump her in a snap..
If u in time want to forgive her, it's up to you..

PPS: You could also say, like said above.. "hey make sure you wear big underwear, if he wants to get in your pants he'll run away fast haha.."

PPPS: be alpha..

Also.. In the start i hated it that many boys were talking to my girl.. and she even lives in another country. which made it worse..
But she tells me everything.. like "that guy told me i was beautiful" ect..
She tells me everything.. and thats cause i dont get mad...
On the contrary.. i'm happy that guys want her.. cause i can lay back and think
"Damn, every guy wants to hit my chick... hahahah.. but im the only one that CAN!"

*Borat accent*
You'll never get this you'll never get this allalalalllalala only my alpha BF can..
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HAHA! Love the Borat video!

Anyway let me give you an example. My ex-gf was an hb 9/9.5. She got hit on all the time! So I had to be extra cool about things with her. She would shit test me all the time by letting me know how much she got hit on. Here is one particular example. She did sales and some customer that liked her always insisted she go out with them for drinks. Well one night he had his hands all over her trying to flirt and stuff and she called me up telling me all about it trying to make me jealous. My response to her: "whatever you have to do to make the sale". That response drove her crazy, she was really mad! But guess what? I got laid like a rock star that night!!!!!!! He he! She had to remind me how good I had it.