| Here's the scenario. My friend and I are going to a club tonight. I know clubs aren't the best place to go, but we are going, so we're gonna have to do our best there. When we usually go to clubs, we just dance most of the night, and do dance with girls, but dont #close as often as possible. But I feel dancing is good practice for kino and sexual tension. But tonight we are gonna keep the dancing to a minimum. Him and I are very good at talking to girls once we open sets, but NEED practice on opening sets. I figure there will be a lot of people there, and its gonna be loud, so there wont be many long sets, but plenty of chances for openers.
Ive decided, we are going exploit the 3's rule in its entirety, but need some good legitimate openers. I know we can run opinion openers, but sometimes those seem awkward especially if your gonna use it on every group.
Is it too AFC to use a "How are you ladies doing?" or "Hi" (smile)?
Is there any type of opener, that conveys that we are going around to socialize and meet people, or offer them the chance to meet us, without seeming needy?
My goal is to talk to open as many sets as possible during the night. I dont really care whether we get shot down, or go into a full on conversation, as long as we're getting practice.
I have a couple of other questions on the approach:
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If its just me and my friend, can we approach groups together, or should one of us open a set, while the other is off at the bar, and then the other join in? Or does it not really matter?
Should we ues false time constraints, or just walk around at chat it up, as if we're there to socialize?
Although we dont really care about the outcomes, what are some ways of DHV when you've got loud music and minimal words to say? I want women to know that I am the prize, and by me approaching them, they might have a chance to have a good night.
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Im getting pumped up, and am ready to have a great time, will let everyone know tommorow how it goes.
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