Hey Im stuck a rough situation that Im in deperate need of help!!! O.k heres the scenrio...

theres this girl that im very attracted too and I just recently found out that she is interested in me. She is good friends with my friend's girlfriend and both of them wants to go on a double with me and my friend on friday..... I know a little about like she is smart, she in college, my other friend is trying to get at her but she doesnt like him, she has a rough relationship with her farther, and she can be differcult to other guys (im guessing because of her relationship with her dad)... so she has her walls up!!! also she likes romantic things( what girl doesnt)

how do I approach her differently, what ORIGANAL OPENER CAN I USE
THAT SHE NEVER HEARD BEFORE??

any advice and help is greatly appreciated!!!

?????????? GO ON THE DOUBLE DATE!!! LOL ! , just tell your friend you think she is a cool girl and all of you guys should go and hangout!

Cheers

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V3nu

^^^^ lol yea I know that! we going on a double date and all but i dont want to walk up to her and say what every man has already said before to her! I just need a OPENER!!! haha

[quote="Kennedy64"]^^^^ lol yea I know that! we

This isnt a situation that requires an Opener.
An Opener is used to create the opportunity for you to game a girl.
Since she is aggreeing to meet you on this Double date, its allready open.
Therefore.. you just go:
You: Hey, nice to meet Im xxxx.
Her: Im.. nice to meet you too.

Then when you talk to her.. use your commonsense and try to get to know her.
in a flirty/teasing way. Dont be afraid to tell a story about yourself, but make sure to ask her questions regarding her persona and interests etc. People love to talk about themselves. And when she asks you.. dont give everything a way. Have a couple of secret she'll get the answers to if she invests in you.

Good luck.

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Vino, vedi, vici.
I drank some wine, I saw her, I conquered

EXACTLY!!! you DO NOT NEED TO OPEN HER !
when you see a girl walking by you want to talk to you then you go ad open, in this situation you just run every part of the game after the opener, because you will be introduced to each other!!!

CHeers

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V3nu

Just be yourself... the best self you could be.

An Opener !!! DUDE do you even know what an opener is used for ?!! Some guys have been reading soooo much in here that they've forgotten to initiate a conv. like a normal person !!

Ok try this " Hi (with a smile) "....That should open for you.

Hope I'm not too late for this posting...

Definately go out on the double date.

You are already in since you know she likes you...so forget the openers, that will be a waste of time. But what you can do is build good rapport with her and keep her interested and do the whole body talk, eye stare, kino, etc. thing.

And most of all, RELAX... and remind yourself that you are already in, you just don't need to mess it up by trying too hard.

With regards to the issues with her father, that is another story, but you can rest assure she won't be an easy egg to crack so you should really think about if she is really someone you want cause there WILL be drama.

Let us know how things worked out.

Best of Luck,

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

if your friends interested dude you gotta be careful, don't step on toes. remember friends come first it shows high DHV if you spend a night cock blocking your buddy your screwed and you could cause problems. i would go on an outing, and do little things in the night to get her to want to talk to you. kind of like LMR. do something and then obviously your friend will do something to get back her attention and you lay off which will want her to talk to you. you could set your self up nicely because eventaully she'll be sick of your friend and force you to be with her. the rest of the way is smooth sailing. you could as well start befriending her friend so she has nice things to say about you as well (another DHV) you could definitly win this just be patient.

good luck to you sir