Hey,

This is my first field rapport. Or maybe is should call it a date rapport.
I write this cause some people asked for it in another topic.
So i went out on a friends date with a girl i fucked a year ago but got in trouble back then. We were just going to be friends she said.

Now on this date (she asked me to but i didnt really want to) we went to her hometown wich is a shithole. Seriously.
She is a very impulsive person so i used that and said: Lets get the fuck out of here! There must be more fun in another town.
So we went there and went to the cinema.
We went to see twilight. What a piece of shitfilm is that.
But anyway i rubbed in her face that it wasnt a real date etc. and at a point i started flirting some with a 3 set of girls.
The look on her face was like gold. So after getting the number of one of these girls in the 3 set i sat down and tried to watch the film again.
Now my date places her hand on my leg and starts rubbing it and im like omg this works!
Just to piss her off i take her hand and put it off my leg again and she didnt touch me the rest of the time.

After this we went and had dinner where she kept staring at me so this happened:

Me : Why are you staring at me like you're in love. We are just friends and im not really into you or anything.
HB (8 btw) : Yes i know. But i think i fell in love with someone...
Me : Oh really who? It must have been that waiter wasnt it! (waiter had a beard size fucking hell too long) I allways knew you like men with a big beard.
HB : Ehm. no. aw come on dont make this so hard on me please.
Me : Well then. Now dont be affraid.
At the moment i say that i go in for the kiss bang back out of the friend zone.

We made out all the way home in the train. All the people looking at us haha. Didnt care she thought that was hot!


Anyway. If you want to get out of the friend zone i hope this has helped you and else i hope its a nice story!

yeah, the jealousy plotline can skyrocket your attraction, it's amazing.

And I saw that piece of shit film too, those are 2 hours of my life I'll never get back.

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An approach a day keeps the guru away.

I agree with Randomly.

First, guys have to ask themselves WHY they are in the 'Friend Zone' to begin with.
Once they figure it out, then they need to stop whatever it is that they are doing that caused them to be in the 'Friend Zone' in the first place.

Second, one of the reasons why guys are IN the 'Friend Zone' in the first place is because:

THEY HAVE NO VALUE....hear me on this one....THEY HAVE NO VALUE...

which makes them UNATTRACTIVE to woman in the first place.

What Randomly just demonstrated, he increased his value by being ATTRACTIVE to other girls. Also, he was being spontaneous... And what is more... he didn't give a rat's ass what his woman friend thought he was doing when he was talking to the other girls. Which DROVE HER CRAZY!

And during the whole evening he was IN CONTROL of the situation and SHE knew this, which took him OUT of the 'Friend Zone'.

Good Field Report...I hope others can learn from this.

Case Closed...Plus one for Randomly.

Cheers!

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.