FU: Failed and got no where



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 7 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Real Life Gaming » Field Reports




Author Message
PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 9:57 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:21 am
Posts: 9
First ill point out I’ve read a couple of the books out there and even watched the "Stealth Attraction" video. But this is my first time out in the field to possibly try and test some of the things I’ve read and learnt. I didn’t have any material prepared or written either. So please give me some feedback on how I could have done better. I do have a slight idea where I failed.

So I was out at the local club, I also attempted to DHV when entering the club by speaking with a friend of mine that was the head bouncer at the club as well. Anyways I smiled as I entered and continued to move around the club to avoid staying in one place for too long. I left the dance floor and grabbed a water from the bar when a HB9 bumped into me; mind you she was pretty intoxicated. I thought to myself “man a HB9 for a first attempt to use what I learnt, not good.” Conversation went like so...

HB9: “I’m sorry I didn’t mean to spill your drink”
Me: (smile) “I don’t think you’re sorry at all. You just like bumping into unsuspecting people”
HB9: (Laughing) “No really I am.”
Me: “Well... I guess I can let it slide, but just this once though”
HB9: “Just once? No more chances? Pleease.”
Me: (Turn away slightly)
HB9: “I don’t like the general public.”
Me: “Well lucky you this is loosely considered the general public, or else I wouldn’t be here.”
HB9: (Laugh) “How about I get you another drink for spilling yours? I’ll buy your forgiveness.”
Me: “Well you’re gonna need some pretty deep pockets.”
HB9: (Laughs more) “Well I don’t think I can do that. I’m in school studying psychology and I won’t be making good money till I’m done. What do you do?”
Me: “I’m a professional hop scotch player.”
HB9: (Laughs) “I used to play that when I was small. I wish life was that easy.”
Me: “Well I got a stick of chalk in my pocket whenever you want a challenge I’m always ready.”
HB9: (Laugh) “Well I’ll have to hold you to that. I have to go meet my friends now it was very nice to meet you and was nice talking with you. (Shake my hand)

That was kinda long but I think I messed up cause I couldn’t hold any of her interest or attention. That’s the best idea I could come up with. If anyone has any advice, tips, or what I should have said for the next time I go out that would be help a lot.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 10:23 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Thu Dec 10, 2009 8:16 am
Posts: 6
hey i thought that was pretty dope. i guess all you gotta work on was some improv in your convo, maybe go into some of the psychology topics you might have learned in while in the game to kind of build on her topic of her major


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 10:42 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast
User avatar

Joined: Thu Dec 10, 2009 2:41 am
Posts: 56
I agree with Doubledown, but overall I think you were pretty good. I have to ask did you do any kino? Maybe this is where you failed. Also when she said she was going to meet her friends you may have said something to make her feel guilty about leaving you on your own like "you're going to leave me by myself? wow, you're rude (smile)" - from that you could have got her number and maybe met up with her later.


Phoenix - "Women want sex as much as men, they're just generally less forward about it."


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 10:47 am 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:21 am
Posts: 9
I didn't manage to get any kino from her but half way through the conversation the most was me having my hand on her waist.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 3:31 pm 
Offline
Dedicated Member

Joined: Thu Jun 18, 2009 2:24 pm
Posts: 732
Location: Montreal
Yeah, that was pretty good. Use this though when they want to leave: "Sure, but before you go meet your friends ..." then transition. You could of talked to her about psychology, then run the cube on her... then little she knows she invested 5...10...15 mins with you then N-close.

If it was early in the night (she was intoxicated I guess it was later) you can leave the conversation at that and re-open later on.

_________________
Drink me, make me feel real
Wet your beak in the stream
Game we're playing is life
Love is a two way dream


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 6:03 pm 
Offline
New to MPUA Forum

Joined: Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:21 am
Posts: 9
Ah I totally forgot the cube. Everytime i try and recite it to myself i usually forget or even get stuck half way.


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 6 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link