Hey all.

Some girl I haven't seen in a long time (hb8'ish I believe), wants me to visit her to grab a beer together. Sure, I accepted. It has been so long since I have seen her that it really is like starting from scratch - the only difference being that her comfort levels obviously will be higher than with a total stranger.
She lives a long way from me, so a relationship isn't really what I am after, or a real possibility. I just want to f-close and have a good time with her for the brief period I'll hook up with her. The fact that she wants me to visit her, and that she's single tells me that my chances of getting this thing together should be fair enough, unless I screw up.
I guess what I should be doing is starting of flirting and kino as soon as possible?
The biggest issue will probably be to get her to the comfort level to have sex with me even though she'll know that it only will be a one night stand..

Any tips?

Also, I have some issues with kinoing properly, which will be a crucial in getting f-closed. Last week I kissed closed another girl within 10 minutes with the "how good of a kisser are you from 1-10 " thingy, worked like a charm, but that doesn't really help a damn unless you are doing kino/comfort building right. The palm reading thing sounds like a good way, but it isn't really for me. If I only could manage to get a hold of her arm, get to hold around her, stroke her hair without it feeling forced. Even just the arm without feeling forced and I am sure I could build up from there. I am at a point where I am almost more comfortable going for a kiss close than doing kino, sigh.

Any kino related tips?

I would just flirt with her and put the kino into it gradually. Read her body talk and see what she is telling you...that is VERY important.

There is NO guarantee you will hook up with her though but you can try.

The only time I ever F-Closed is when the girls were really drunk...It was like stealing candy from a baby, plus the sex was terrible because they were drunk.

I'm not suggesting that you get her drunk, I'm just saying it might not happen.

Best,

J=Dub

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You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

thanks for the input J-dub:)