Hello,

I consider myself a pretty talented PUA when it comes to getting numbers/laid or dates. However I have always completely sucked at the relationship phase. My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 4 months now. I have not let up my game - and I still keep up the mystery and whatever else, while calling her out when she gets out of line. Things have been amazing and she always thinks of me first and about how I feel about things.

The problem I am encountering recently is that ever since we had sex for the first time (about 3 weeks ago) it seems that little things irritate us and make us snap at each other. We have argued a lot lately and it is starting to wear in on both of us. Neither of us want to argue and we really care for eachother. I don't know what that is and I dont quite know what to do to help the situation.

Tonight it blew up. I called her out on it and things escalated to a huge fight. I might have blown things a little out of proportion - however she was the one who was being a complete B***H. SO I apologized for MY mistake - but made sure she knew I did not appreciate being treating that way or her even THINKING she could treat me that way.

Sick of fighting - like the girl - irritated at each other for little meaningless shit. Help. =(

I really dont know your situation but maybe you guys are taking your relationship or whatever you have too quickly. Take your time and dont rush things. I guess when you called her on something (it was something you didnt like that she did) and she didnt see what was wrong with it, then you tried to explain it and got frustrated a lil bit and started arguing. <--- please correct me if im wrong.

If everything before i said was correct i obviously think you should take sometime for yourself spend more time with your friends and reduce a lil bit your contact with her. She now feels that you are paying attention to everything she does and trying to control her which is not good.
peace

get information about her history.... maybe her former BG cheated one her ... maybe she was abused or something else.

ask questions .... maybe her personality is little bit fucked up because she endured something.

in any case spend less time at her .. if you see eachother too much you will bitch about little things.


o yeah and don't put up a defense ... if she thinks your a asshole reply : '' ok you can think that.. maybe im a asshole''
don't argue ...... if you really feel like you can't stand it THEN just leave .. girls hate it when you walk out on them.

xxx

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