okay im a junior in high school. So theres always a ton of hb7+ walking around. Well i dont know why but i just cant bring my ass to go to random girls and open even say hi. Its a blend of approach ax. but i can approach its just that words escape me. For example theres this hb8 who i always see hanging with her girls and sometimes by herself but idk what to say to her. I was thinking of 3 second rule but ill just look like a idiot saying hi and freezing up. please help anything scenarios please.

How old are you? In jr. high you should be just enjoying yourself IMO.

But if you're gonna do this, don't start by just approaching girls. Get a somewhat high social status. When I was in middle school, all I did was hang around the same friend all the time while watching him getting popular and talking to everyone while I just sat there frustrated because I didn't (and still don't) have the social skills he had. So make a lot of friends, it'll pay off later.

he said Junior in HIGH school.

just do an opinion opener. you guys go to the same school, so im sure you have a lot in common.

high school can be just as dangerous of close quarters as in the workplace. if you make an ass of yourself, people will talk around. how about you just go about her as if you are looking to make a new friend?

if I were you, I would try cold approaching in outside environments first to get your confidence up - mall, park, etc.

then go and hit her up. don't be needy and get one-itis.

drive to the nearest jr. high and park your car as school is letting out. Sit down on the hood of your car while it's blasting rock and roll. The chicks will starting walking up to you like zombies in a trance.

No offense but this seems a little corny. Maybe like it would work in a scene from Grease or something, but in real life I think you may look like a dork, especially if you sitting alone.

LOL. I think he was just kidding. Keep us tabbed on your progress please

Uh, I knew that.

frekinrican, yo buddy listen up. my little brothers 13 and im assumin ur somewhere round there. imma give you the same advice i give him. wait and slow play everything with the girls in ur grade. you should be more concerned with being friendly to them and cool. if this girl is 13 and putting out then you dont want her. she def alpha female, talks to all the cool girls in ur grade, and by the time you hit hischool ull be old news. all the hottest girls in ur grade will start puttin out in hs and ll be over you. your chances are better if you keep a little mystery to u. if i were you id be tryin for an older girl, try for a grade higher. if ur in 8th then go for a high schooler. but pick a realistic target.(i dont know what u look like but my lil brother is really small for his age. like when we go out to eat he still gets the kids menu handed to him and hes like "i dont want a fuckin kids menu" and the waiter is like "whoa!" he honestly looks like hes nine he 4' 8'' maybe. kids a skinny rock tho. he plays soccer for the NY junior red bulls(pro team). so he has confidence but it kinda intimidates him that the girls are so much taller and on top of it all hes the youngest of 4 brothers so my mom babys him, me and my bros make him tough tho.) sorry i went off there. but yea as i was saying. pick an older girl of mild attractiveness and cool personality and study game like it was a school subject..well no because i wouldnt study then. but work at ur game and find a way in with her. script ur conversations before you have them and practice them. make alternate dialouges to make you prepared for an answers see gives you and really study, make ur self look mature, original, funny and confident. my brother just started talking to his targ monday and he thinks he may kiss close this weekend. hes an adorable 13 yr old who looks nine and hes had a 14 yr old highschooler callin him every night this week.. and the benefit of this is it puts you in a position to get on base with a girl without it being the class whore. the guys in your grade want to be you. the girls will want you and cant have you. also hs hb7 wont think a younger kid is trying to pick her up, she think ur cute and you can get past the dogs and barbwire..this does go against some of the rules of puas but the pua were all losers in highschool. they got into women in the club scene of 18 and older.not to brag but i was pretty well liked in jrhi and hs.i was good friends with many nerds through boy scouts, many girls from gymnastics team (not gay) and many guys cause i was 12 and could do back flips, mistys and walk on my hands. take my advice, you rather be in favor with th girls in ur grade when theyre in thier prime.prom night and all that..just trust me and wait it out .you wont have to deal with the little girl drama of dating a 13 yr old. "highschool drama avoiding dynamics" if you will or "HSdad" ha good luck. you got any questions ill help best i can. i wouldnt steer my bro wrong i love him to death. im tryin to treat the forum the same

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ha my bad. i just re read ur blog and realized u said ur a junior in highschool, not jr high. sorry, i got ahead of myself. but as far as geting a ten. highschool is tough, especially 3/4s done with it bc you already have a reputation and if it wasnt already getting girls then its tough to change that personanna. but same principle as my above blog date a cute girls that is aquainted with hb10 but not good friends and make a name for ur self..work on ur routines and do it up.

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L M A O........ guys im a junior in high school as in Im in 11th grade lol why would a kid 12-13 years old be getting into this. To answer another question im at a new high school this year. Theres so many cute girls in my class i cant bring myself to approach one. There was this cute girl 7.9 that said hi and a huge smile across her face(IOI) to me i said hi and froze damnit....... i cant strike up a convo..... or build rapport for a # close. also I REALLY WANT TO # CLOSE this girl.

dude im havin the same fuckin problem but im a senior and im 18 which seems 2 help but yeah i could really use some advice in this situation 2

same her. but i guess im farther than you guys seeing as i dont have the anxiety but then im mbehind y'all because i just changed so i kinda have a bad rep. lol

anyway try something like what time does this period end or something then go from there.i think it would work. it has for me. even if it doesnt its better than typing away to me isnt it?

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You know what your problem is?You're putting the pussy on a pedistal.

guys. getting with girls in hs is pretty easy. the whole thing in clubs and bars is that girls dont know who u are or where u come from. in hs they know that ur not a serial killer or a sex ofender. gaining thier trust is ten times easier. just stop being so aprehensive. if you talk to her and fail then nothings gonna change. so what do you have to lose? and she has just as much reason to be nervous talking to you as you do to her. stop thinkin of her as a "hot girl" and start thinking of her as any other person,she eats, sleeps, breaths and craves dick just like you(substitute dick for pussy) just dont make her into such a big deal and be aloof. and college is way better than highschool as far as rumors and drama so if you fail, hey theres always college. something im learning is that life is long and filled with opertunity. its just hard to see that way cause school is all uve know since u were little. if life were a video game then highschool is the training mission. just chill the fuck out and go for it. good luck and good game.

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ok guys i have no problem with opening and gettin in the conversation i just somehow always go from confident and the center of the conversation to drawing a blank not bein able to come up with anything more to say and relying on them to keep the conversation going

samething happens to me if i talk to a girl i cant keep convos