So there were these rumors about my gf being a whore. She told me they were true, but she is changing. I didn't believe that at first. Her best friend spoke to me one day, and told me that my gf cheats on evey guy she has been with. That every time one guy fucks up she is with another guy. Well i told her i couldn't trust her, and that i wont be able to love her because of that and brought up the past. Well she got pissed because of that, and we are on the verge of a breakup. I told her everything and that it was a honest mistake. Its been a day so far, any idea on me getting her back?

I have a similar story. I was with this girl for about 4 days. Amazing days by the way. Then I realized after some time that she also fell into the same predicament of whoredom. She was about an HB 10 and sweet and nice, but apparently after further investigation she was also a slutty whore. All her friends were guys...? She received flirtatious txt messages all day from 10 billion different guys? I checked her myspace messages and some guy had sent her a picture of his dick?

I asked her about it and she told me straight out that she had been with a lot of guys. It hurt me for a couple months, but I left her right when she told me. It was for the better. You have to realize sometimes people have different agendas, values, and aspiration than you. Her lifestyle was that of a whore, whereas I was looking for more of a reserved chick who I could date for atleast a month or so. Some girls never calm down; whores for life. Move on, there are plenty of decent ones.

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This is a pretty vast generalisation. I notice that you say some girls but does that mean every girl who has had a couple of wild years in her younger life (teenage years) should be condemned to being a "whore" for the rest of her days. You never know what the situation is, like you said- you had been with this girl for 4 days! You didn't know her.

I think it is possible for a "whore" to change and become faithful when she meets the right man. I had a couple of wild years after breaking up with a long term boyfriend and I admit it- I could not fathon staying with a man for longer than one night. Because I was not ready for another relationship and as soon as a guy would get too close to me, I would run as far and as fast as I could in the opposite direction, usually into the arms of another guy who I was hoping would only want me for sex. That was before I met my current boyfriend. I have been with him for nearly a year and am so in love with him that I can't even LOOK at other guys. I want to marry this guy and have his babies and I would never ever jepordise what I have with him.

Therefore I guess my advice to you is give the girl a chance if you really like her- it might turn out to be something great. If not, you will be hurt for a little while but then you will find another amazing girl.

Good luck!