This HB 8 i've met a week or 2 ago on daytime sarging passed by when i was talking to some friends at the city centre.

She stopped and waited till my conversation with my friends was over.
I ignored her untill i was done talking to my friends.
After some small talk with her she started talking about this.

She: Upcoming thursday is my b-day and this wednesday is my party.
Me : ok, anything special?
She : No my friends arranged this but i dont really wanna go.
Me : You dont want to go to your own b-day party? After your friends go through all the trouble? Isnt that a bit selfish?
She : *laughs* ah come on im a good friend. By the way my real b-day isnt untill this thursday and i rather go to this bar with you.
Me : *takes the hint* Well i think i would like that yeah.
She : *on a very sarcastic way* Well... If you want to.


Eventually she texted me about 15 minutes before i would see her there saying that she couldnt come cause she was too tired.
To wich i responded saying that she could have told me that sooner and i found it messed up she waited that long telling me she was tired. I mean she told me she was up at 11am that morning.

What did i do wrong. I just dont understand.

You didn't pass the shit test she gave you.
Her: "i rather go to this bar with you"
You: "Well i think i would like that yeah."

When you actually could've said: "Well, i gotta check my schedule first, I think we're having a white night and this time is Puzzle time!"
Or whatever you can come up with.

The game is all about passing shit tests, girls love to pass shit tests to check if you would fall into her hoop and overpower your frame.

Thanks for the reply!

I'll definatly keep that in mind for next time something similar happens.

I agree too, it was kind of a shit test because she went over boart with it like "yah i'm gona miss my own birthday just to o the bar with you , you wanna do it?".
But it wouldn't be a shit test if she was like "blah blah yah I have a free day 2morrow, wanan go to the bar?", you could just acted normal and go on the 'date" but because in your case she took it to the "extreme" it was a sit test

Oh and btw if something like that happens to you again or someone flakes on you just be like: 'its cool, I'm still going there with my friends, gonna have a good time ", you are Alpha after all, you are showing that if something happens you will still have fun and if that's not actually true you are still training yourself to be non reactive, it's the same as if you are pumped to go out with your friends and they flake, you won't stay at home and be depressed that they flaked, you are still going because you want to have fun

Cheers

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V3nu

Yeah.
You're right. thanks to you as well.