so, I have been talking to this girl I met I number closed on the street. We have been talking for s about 2 weeks. She had a boyfriend, but I did a boyfriend destroyer and now they are broken up. But, now I am giving sublte hints that I want to ecalate things. THEN, this is exactly what she says..."I don't want guys in my life haha(fake laugh) There is always someone but I dont want anyone romantically".

Im thinking what I need to do is shows some DHV's but im not sure. any suggestoins?

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its a lost cause freeze her out and walk away. She wants a man in her life, she just doesn't want you.

Thats like saying lets just be friends

OR.... this could be a temporary feeling she's having. I mean come on, she broke up with her boyfriend. Maybe she just feels like she doesn't want to jump to quickly into something new.

Give it some time, and keep gaming her. If IOD's start appearing, freeze out.

Yeah, I found her response really defensive. I was surprised when she said this. Mostly because when I am with her she is always giving out IOI's. I think she might be confused

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Work on it, ignore her not wanting a man at the moment. Shes giving IOI's. She might just be looking for a fb.

goodluck and keep us posted!

she's too emotional and don't want to show her vulnerablity .. she doesn't know what she wants ... yet.

when she says such thing ... respond : '' you don't need a man in your life ? since when did you changed to lesbian ? ''

say something funny ... don't take it serious - if you take it serious you are already telegraphing.

i totally agree with zentrode .... but do freeze her out sometimes especially when she IODs you. the least thing you want is ending in the friendship zone .


all girls want cock to some degree ... that make them girls , she isn't saying i don't want cock.
be unaffected AND don't leave her ..... if your deciding to get a GF ASAP then you might search elsewhere - if you got patience you can stick until she's ready for a new commitment.

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I went out and sarged other girls to get this girl out of my head. Had some good times over the Holidays, which I'll be posting about sometime later. But now, this girl is coming around again. However, I think I might be heading into the friend zone. Today, I met up with her and watched some videos and got to talking. She talked about her past relationships blah blah blah... Then we get to talking about if its possible for girls to have guy friends that are not attracted to the girl. She doesn't think so, she says she only hangs out with guys one on one if she is interested (which it was one on one with me an her, but it was a purpose one on one. I don't know if that counts). Anyways, most of the time, even though I made her laugh many times, she had closed body language. I don't know if she was cold or not or just insecure (which I think she is a bit). In the other hand tho, we had a good convo and when leaving we hugged and kissed her on the cheek. Anyways, I think she's into me, but I am getting some big resistance. I need to escalate, any suggestions?

Right now she is frozen out until further notice, for saying that I talk to much. When i froze her she tried to qualify I responded with a jokingly and froze her again. i expect for her to text when im on her mind again.

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Just my two cents...

From the get-go, from your intial description I believed this girl was totally gameable. All that stuff just sounds like shit-tests. The whole "I dont need a man" nonsense is a shit-test. And even the "you talk too much" - its just sounds like nonsense shit-tests to me. I think you are fine to freeze-out (i.e. less availability is always a good rule) but indifference/ignoring her comments may also be fine...In my exp., Girls talk all kinds of crap - what she says means very little, what she does means much more

Whatever you do I'd just be sure to not let her know your sensitivity to her comments.

You should have this girl by playing it cool, slow and calm. Just my opinion