I think there is two types of assumptions we can make from this, and that you can learn from. They derive from deductive and inductive reasoning, not just me guessing.
Deductive:
Premise: You got angry towards her actions.
Conclusion: You need to learn how to control the frame and your mindset, don't let those silly middle-school-dance behaviors get you angry. Remember, to a pick up artist IT'S NO BIG DEAL - no matter what "it" is.
Premise: You told her you were angry.
Conclusion: You let "it" show. While some times it is difficult to control your feelings and emotions, you MUST not let the bad ones show, vocally or physically.
Inductive:
Premise: You didn't K-Close.
Premise: She mentioned being "friends" with you.
Premise: She didn't want to be kissed.
Premise: She started dancing with other guys.
Conclusion: You need to sexually escalate more. She came to your house!!! She knew, or at least thought she was going to have sex, and then when you didn't; she thought that YOU wanted to be friends. The only way around this is sexual escalation.
Premise: She came up and tried to hug you.
Conclusion: You're inadverdent lock-out had a positive effect on the situation and she came back to try to redeem herself. You should have accepted it with a qualification-needing question to make her work for you, then acted like the whole thing never happened.
That all being said; if i were you i would do two things. First, I would treat this time right now like an extension of the lock out, chances are she will try to redeem herself again with a call or text, ask a few qualification questions to make her work for your acceptance of her nonverbal, or verbal for that matter, apology, then go on as normal. Second, i would treat this entire thing like a learning experiece, take the information you gathered form this event and apply it to next time.
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