This HB8 (i call her Kiddo) im texting and meeting her tomorrow night. she seems to throw a lot of shit tests like, she will text something like "How was college today little one?" i would ignore the little one part and say it was gr8,whatever, or it was fine even littler one! because she is smaller than me. should i ignore these? or try to be witty back? There was also a while there when i started texting her one night so i thought i would leave it to her to text me first the next time, but 3 days went by and i gave in and texted her. Should i have waited, or is that even important? is there any ioi's to look out for in texts?

These aren't really shit tests as much is it is her being playful and bantering with you some. You can ignore them or be witty back. I'd say be witty back!

I hate waiting to text or call people screw that stupid rule. People will post behind me defending it saying "your low value" or you'll DLV yourself messaging her so quickly. That's bullshit! I message girls up a lot that I meet in person and online and don't have a problem. Granted don't blow up her phone but waiting in most cases just hurts you.

You have this girl hot for you and likes you a good amount. She's talking to us on the phone and we're going to not talk to her for a few days. Yeah that'll make her hot for us...bullshit she'll start looking at other options and possibly think you're not interested. It's a stupid idea to wait in my opinion. Sorry...I'll get off my soapbox and put it away.

As far as IOIs to look for in texts...sure all of them. Reintiating conversation is an IOI an it works for text too, anything she does to try to build rapport with you is an IOI via text, Nicknames are good too!

~Jon

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Dude, thats a huge shit test. Even in a playful way, she is subtley testing you to see if you will take the degrading names from her. If you are bothered by her calling you that, definetly have her stop it.

dude...listen to Jsmooth..its not a shit test...its just being playful with you. take it as in IOI as shes being playful, if she was not interested she'd be polite...just tease her back, if your being bothered by a girl calling you little one...and then tell her that it bother you...to me thats a complete turned off. calling you little one,I dont think shes being disrecpectful, dont listen to over analyze guys on here...checkfigure1 your so wrong on this...

I also do not think its a shit test. I think she's flirting and would take it as an IOI. Plus it'd be easy to be playful right back when a girl calls you little.

Also don't tell her that it bothered you. She's trying to play and have fun. If you tell her it bothers you, you're no fun to play with. Just tell her...girl, it ain't small but don't be scared.

IOI:"How was College today little one?"

Shit Test: "We should fuck right here in Dairy aisle"

Cool, cheers guys. Meeting her at a club tonight, things are going well, she said i had to buy her a drink so i said \"oh, no, my mommie warned me about girls like you\" she laughed so i said \"how about this, you surprise me with a drink, and ill surprise you back but we cant tell eachother what they are untill they are gone\" i thought making a game out of it would be cool.she said shes excited amd looking forward to it! So its fair to say, calling me little one was a playfull IOI. Cheers again guys.

So, no field report?

Good that you turned it around on her and made it into a game. Girls dig that. Its playful and at the same it appears to her that you are in control and know how to have fun.

But yea, the 'little one' comment, it is a test, she is just seeing how your respond to it. If you take it personally (and you respond to it negatively) she may not have gone out with you. So go with the flow and turn it into something that you can work with (maybe a good neg later on)

J-Dub

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