Me and my girl get on a treat and always have fun when we're together.

I want to see her outside of college more, we see each other every weekday but obviously the time we spend is limiting.

We speak every evening also, either by phone or MSN. Things are good y'know. But she "doesn't like" going out but is reluctant to do something on a weekend.

I think I know why, she's just worried that by coming to mine/me going to hers that she thinks I'll expect ... stuff. Which isn't true this soon, I just want to see her . She's implied I should just be patient and it won't be long, 2 weeks maybe ? But is there anyway I can show that I honestly just want to spend time with her outside of college ? If she doesn't like going out then going to hers/her coming here is like the only option.

Cheers for any advice anyway. Worst case scenario, I'll wait I don't want to be doing anything to spoil things with her, I have honest intentions.

You sound like you're really into her- that's sweet.

The only advice I can really give you is either:

1. Sit her down and tell her that you really really like her and you just want to spend time together at your place- maybe you want her to meet your parents or something. Also let her know that you are willing to wait as long as she needs and that is not the only reason you're with her.

OR

2. Spend time with her in public places- go to the beach or the mall or something. No "stuff" can happen when there are people everywehere!

Good luck!!

Hey, just thought I'd bump this thread as the situation has remained the same.

Haven't really progressed past making out and haven't been able to spend much time outside of college.

Party this Friday and she's mentioned me going to hers on the Saturday, but nothing concrete.

Any more advice to be given ? I appreciate what I've had so far Thank youu.

Thanks !

dont make a big deal about going to hers on saturday. I mean if you ask her and she doesnt give you a clear reply then and there and is kinda vague and unsure dont pressure her by bombarding her with the "so am i staying at your saturday?" everytime you speak. If you ask her and she's not clear totally drop the subject for a while and then go back to it when she seems more relaxed, otherwise just let it happen naturally (to her) but with you kinda pushing it in that direction without seeming to be forceful.

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