Hey guys I've been away for a while

A lot changed and the game got really interesting for me,it finally started working.
So I was at a club a while back and I picked up this 8. She was fine

So we end up hanging out for a couple weeks just kicking it, I kept my distance

Then we got a little more serious and I found out that she would sell her ass for cash.
I didn't know what to think but I was like we'll she's got money for sure so I'll stick around. During that time I got feelings for her.

It's crazy I go out with other girls and get bored so fast, I try to fuck other girls and I don't get hard sometimes.

She tells me she wants to change, and that she want's to find a real job and get everything straight, she has these things she has too pay.

I told her this couldn't work cause I was starting to care about her more than I want too and it would hurt too much later on for her to do what she's doing.

I told her that it's going to be hard to go from making, 500 a night to making 500 a check.

We tried to split but then she begged me not to leave and that she needs me right now, and it was a side of her I hadn't seen, so I stayed

I don't know what to do, I've been with so many girls and none of them have been like me as much as this one. She understands me. I understand her, and when she walks into a room it's like it goes from grey, to vibrant colors. It's crazy

Should I stay with this girl and try to help her out and maybe she'll change,
Or move on cause people get stuck in the game (not the pua game lol)?

Thanks

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Getting the Hang of things

I have some experience in this with a girl who did porn and lied about being a prostitute before I dated her and then, when things got rocky, she got back into it (without telling me).

My advice: I would leave, man. It's just my two cents.

I know its not what you want to hear but I will tell you a few things from my experience:

Alot of prostitutes are semi-psychopathic. I dont mean she is a murderer but I mean, that they can be very deceptive and very charming on the surface. They can lie so well it's like they are an actor. Have you ever heard the expression, that "there is no such thing as a hooker with a heart of gold"? I feel that this is true. As men, I think we tend to fall for this whole damsel-in-distress scenario and we want to believe we can reform these types. The movies love this scenario too (i.e. Sin City, Pretty Woman etc.)

She likely views sex as much more of an activity rather than anything sacred. In a long-term relationship, this kind of person will find it hard to be faithful. I am not saying it can not happen, just that it is unlikely to work out in the long run. Sex to her is likely, not a big deal. An open relationship? Maybe. It's just that I found these girls are either sex-addicts or there whole interpretation of sex and men has been skewed/deluded.

I am not a big believer in the idea that people will change. Im not saying they dont. I just think it takes alot more than you might think. My ex was the same way. She was earning shitloads prostituting before. Even more doing porn. ( She tried to hide this past history from me when we dated though and I did not find out until 8 months later). I also found out later, she left that whole world to date me and she took college classes to become skilled in another trade. Guess what? I guess she couldnt handle the lack of money becuase after a year she got back into it. When we dated, she was incredibly insecure when I didnt want sex. She was also very possessive/jealous and needy. I am not 100% certain but I am pretty sure she started cheating with multiple men in the late stages of the relationship.

Plus, think about the diseases and the risks. Realize you are dating someone who lives a deceptive criminal life etc.

Look everyone's experience could be different, so I am not going to say this women your dating is the same as mine.

But I would proceed with extreme caution. Once the honeymoon phase is over, look out. If u ask me, she's very unlikely to stay faithful.

My advice: Find someone else. If you can score an HB8, find another with less baggage. At least, I learnt this lesson the hard way.

Makes sense

Yeah everything you said is the same thing I thought about. Like to her sex isn't a big deal so if she sees someone she likes than it's nothing to her to go and fuck him

I told her, I don't think you can change, and shes saying that I haven't given her a chance, and then I'm thinking like fuck if give her a chance and she fucks up then what.

I want to leave and every time I try she pulls me back and I feel guilty lol. Guess I just gotta grab my balls and man up.

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Getting the Hang of things

Yep. I agree. I dont doubt in the honeymoon phase, she will stay committed. The thing is when you start to have problems down the road or everything isnt great for a couple weeks and some arguements fly, what happens? Like you reiterated, I feel a girl with this background is just more likely to stray more easily.

Its just my experience and believe me, I was with someone who was hard to walk away from too: profressed to be madly in love (still to this day), very charismatic and exciting to be with etc. Difference was she hid her indiscretions and decietful past. When I found out though, I broke up becuase I had the lies and manipulations also to hold against her.

She wasnt reliable in the long run. She just couldnt stay committed despite her claim that I was "the one". Once a few problems happened, she cheated quickly. Just look at her history. Chances are it's filled with short-term relationships of 6 months to a year. She's probably cheated before. SHe's unlikely to have alot of 6-year partners.

Like I said, just my two cents.