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the crucial moment that i'm talking about is when you already kissed the girl she is naked in your bed and you must take the condom for have sex.
the question is......waht to say in the second before take the condom?
"do you want have sex?"
"should i take the condom?"
no...i don't think so.....say something in that moment could be wrong......what i generally do is just take the condom and have sex but:
in one specific situation things went wrong
i met this young girl (19teen) the same night....she was also from another country so is understandable she didn't want to have sex the first night
anyway she came to my house and we kissed for many minutes and then she was naked in my bed,was enough wet so i took the condom and put on me.but she said she didn't want to have sex.
so i ruined the situation and i went home without nothing....nor a handjob.
do you guys think i did the right things?
if i didn't take the condom probably i could have had more like a handjob or a blowjob
so what to do next time
is really hard
i would say that just keep escalating. making out then ,hanjob ect... and let it lead up to the moment