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PostPosted: Tue Dec 01, 2009 3:25 pm 
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Hi I'm Replay,

So here's the situation - bare with me here, it's my first post, not sure what the protocol is for typing out "life stories"

I first met this girl at college - helped her get into a building - she had difficulty opening the door. I help, and walk off...no flirting...nothing.

This girl is a solid 8...maybe 9?

She seems the bitchy type...ultra fashionable etc...so at this point I really can't be f*cked with dealing with a bitch...

Anyway next time we meet I'm at a desk...she walks past smiles and waves...I'm shocked/confused...don't show it...casually wave...

But that's my first IOI...so time to game!

Next time...I walk past her...say "hi" and walk away...she runs up to me and starts a convo...her mate then joins us...coincidence I know her mate....so turn all my attention to mate...I then say I have to leave - we swap details and she adds me on facebook...lame I know. Fbook is the new #close for frickin AFCs...

Anyway I see her online on fbook chat...we get talking...and she invites me to two parties...I say I cba...she keeps pushing and messaging on fbook inbox until I agree...I leave my number - and say "don't want to have to reject your invite, so count me in...drop me a text when you're planning to get there"

On the day of the party she keeps texting me...calling me to check if I'm coming and if I'm gonna be there on time.

At the party...dammmmn she's looking fineeee! She ditches her mates and we get drinks...she pretty much ditches her mates for the rest of the evening...takes loads of pics with me etc...etc...at the end of the night...she barely says bye to her mates...and walks to the tube station alone with me...

She's then up all night tagging the frikin pics!!!!!!!!! the album cover is a pick of us...and all her girls are making comments and "liking" the pics...

Ok...so after that I initiate a few convos...we text...I online message her on fbook etc...etc...after her last reply I always end it. Don't want to START and END every convo...too AFC

In one of the convos she brings up the pics and says - heyy all my mates are asking who's this boy...oooh loads of pics with him blah blah blah....another IOI

Anyway we meet at college again...because she sees me and runs up to chat...I've just grabbed a drink and she walks to a table and sits down...waiting to for me to go sit and chat...we chat for a frikin hour...blah blah blah...i flirt, i tease, i neg....my game is definitely on here...she's giving me IOIs all over the place

playing with her hair...laughing to everything....smiling ....fidgeting etc...etc....

she's munching chocolate the whole time...anyway I end the convo again...and say "forget the junk food...next week let's get sandwiches" - (there's this place i mentioned earlier that does great sandwiches)...she says ok!

Ok so here's the thing...when we meet...she literally runs after me

But when we're out of college...nothing...no texts...no fbook....nothing...wtf?

What should I do? Open another convo? What should I say? It's boring to keep making small talk...eliciting values or chatting about random stuff we have in common...all seems lame...

What does this lack of interest out of college mean? Does it even mean anything?

Also she might have "forgotten" about this lunch, which is planned this thursday - I want to raise it...even if it's like a "see you at the lounge at 11"...need some strategy here...and some advice on how to up the heat...

Pls enlighten me!

Appreciate it

Replay

(p.s. if any info is missing just message)


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 02, 2009 2:01 pm 
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Were is the kino? Why didn't you k-close?

I think you blew your window of opportunity.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 02, 2009 2:26 pm 
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Thanks for feedback bro

Need to get some kino in...will see her tomorrow...had an "emotional connection" convo last night...I think I'm back in

She was in a right bitch fit...I had her change her mood in an instant...then she'd realise..."fuck I'm being nice to this guy..." and turn the bitch switch back on...hot/cold the entire time...for some reason her method of flirting seems to be - being a complete BITCH! and to insult me at every opp.

But it was kind of playful?

Anyway I totally had her in my control...it was definitely PUA-quality

I think she has low self esteem...when I asked her to describe herself - she described herself as "egotistical" and "a bitch"...why the f*ck would you say that??

Then when I casually compliment her and combine it with a demand - she giggles like a school girl and obeys e.g. "hey gorgeous...drop the bitch shield now"

Problem area though:

When I raised the sandwiches...she was like "wtf? what are you talking about" as if she'd forgotten and totally dimissed it...but she wouldn't let me leave the convo...

Talk about mixed signals...

How do you suggest getting in some casual kino?

K-close is a sticking point for me...

All that "do you want me to kiss you" stuff...just sounds ridiculous when I say it in my mind...call it inner game work...or maybe need to think of a more suitable tactic for myself

My K-closes with my pervious ex's or one-nighters have always been initiated by the HB...I usually turn up the heat and play the tactic: "desirable but unattainable"...and turn it around for them to chase...

It's something I kinda figured out and "termed" as an AFC before reading The Game.

Display higher value, combine with negs...and voila! (worked well for me in clubs)

NO HOPE IN HELL IT'S GOING TO WORK WITH THIS ONE!

Any suggestions?


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 03, 2009 2:22 am 
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I don't usualy go fancy on the k-close. I corner her a bit (ie. open a door for her but hold her with my arm) lock eyes for 1 sec grab her neck and kiss...

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