Hey guys, awesome forum you got here.
I got a minor situation that i want to nurture to the best so if you can offer some insights would be swell.
I’ve done some online dating for a couple months (though mostly without game techniques, and you guessed it – no f-closes =), but i have pulled of a few #-closes and dates. But as a new game enthusiast i tried a different approach to a really nice hb8 – and now i’m unsure of the safest way to secure a close.
The conversation is in a different language so i’ll give a rough cut:
Me: Aren’t you cool being up side down playing guitar (she had a picture of this). Almost like i want to get to know you
HB: yeah, really cool
But nothing i would recommend.
Me: Yeah, you’re both cool and pretty, just like i want them. But we would never get along – we’re too similar. Even if i don’t play guitar up side down
HB: Is that so?.. You’re jumping to conclusion all of a sudden, haha. Alright, a test. Name 5 insanely good songs you like, go on!
Me: Oh, missy is giving me a test is she? Alright, cos i’m being nice today i’ll answer it. ‘i listed some Dylan and Cash songs and finished with aqua – Barbie girl. Then i asked her to give me three things to say about herself i would like besides her looks’.
HB: ‘She laughs about me mentioning Aqua and Johnny Cash, that the two of them should not be in the same sentence’. ‘Then she says she is horrible describing herself. But like, that she is driven and spontaneous. And for some very weird reason she mentions she has a cobra phone??? (I mean a cobra phone – who brings that up in a conversation? Google image it if you want to see one)
Then asks me to say three things about myself.
Me: ‘Because she didn’t answer my question properly i went on the frame that she failed the test’.
Ah, I’m sorry to inform you that you failed the test, and i had big hopes for you
Now i have to deduct some points from you. And remember you need max score before you get my number
A cobra phone ey, that’s too much information, i don’t want to know what you do with that thing
(it's obvious when you see the shape of it, but i didn't write that)
Now you have to come up with something that gives you more points, lucky for you that you are cute and funny so you have a good start =)
HB: Haha, if we’re talking deducting points than you are quite behind with the comment about the phone! Omg, a phone is crossing the line severely!
‘she talks about she is not good getting points and it’s better i ask questions since i misinterpret her answers. But she says she is awesome playing videogames and baking cookies (sounds nice to me)’.
Have i made a good impression now? I’ve like exposed a lot now and i know nothing about you. You know, you got some points to catch up to, so bring it
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Alright, so this is where i’m at. It felt that we had some nice chemistry and (good) tension, but it feels like i have a major window now to make mistakes and ruin it all, especially since she turned the test back to me, which i don’t like.
So I ask you puas, how would you continue this conversation in its smoothest and best form of resulting in #-close and eventually an f-close.
Feel free to comment on the conversation also.
Cheers
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