Hi guys,

In the beginning of this year I was going to become a pua. But with just a basic knowledge of the game I landed myself a GF. But we broke up and we said we were breaking up as friends.

Now I'm going to continue my journey to a pua. It has been like a month since we broke up and she asked me to grab a coffee with her this weekend because we're ' friends'.

I was wondering what the PUA manner is to handle this. I got over her but if I think about meeting her again, I get my old feelings back. Any advice on this guys?
Should I go or not etc.

Thanks a lot!

Well this truly depends on if you really want to stay friends with your past girlfriend. You broke up as "friends" and friends hang out and do stuff together. If you want to show that you are serious about being her friend then you need to go. Keep in mind having good relationships with past girlfriends is a DHV, plus she could be your social proof at times if she hangs out with you places. Just a few thoughts for you to ponder over in addition to the rest.

You're only human so of course the old feelings are going to come back. It's going to be hard hanging out with her the first few times. I'm not going to lie at all. I do this with my past girlfriends or people I date. It's a good idea to keep them as friends. I don't know about you but I can never have enough friends.

Jon

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Go out with the intention to remain friends. But, don't be there with a biased mind set. Suppose an Afc, PUA or Alpha roles up and starts hitting on her and she tells him that you and her are just friends. She will know if you have feelings for her by your reaction. If you do, she will milk it for everything that its got.

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you can fake it till you make it, but if it feels REAL go with the flow!

Wow thanks guys now I feel like it has a bigger purpose and won't be akward because really being friends could turnout great and yes friends is something you can never have enough of.