How do you accurately know if a girl is playing you? Not just assuming she is getting you to go through her hoops, negging you, etc...

ANY HELP??

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the only thing i know of, from experience, is things go A LOT faster than usual.

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Yeah, this happens to everyone. It happened not to long ago. She and I have said some sexual things to eachother so I thought she wanted to give me head cuzz she mentioned she "wanted to". I told her by to meet me at the family bathrooms at this one place and she said fine, but eventually flaked and said she's not serious then I had to bust my ass telling her I was just playing also.
Give us an update soon bro!

Yeah, this happens to everyone. It happened not to long ago. She and I have said some sexual things to eachother so I thought she wanted to give me head cuzz she mentioned she "wanted to". I told her by to meet me at the family bathrooms at this one place and she said fine, but eventually flaked and said she's not serious then I had to bust my ass telling her I was just playing also.
Give us an update soon bro!

i read somewhere recently that the best way to tell if she's playing you (for kicks, or so her friend can hook up with your friend, etc) is this:

Get her into comfort phase and start talking about the future. Her reaction is key.

say things like
"hey you like soccer too?!? awesome. you'll have to come along next time i go to a game with my friends"
OR
"imagine a year from now, i see you at blah blah blah and etc..."

dont make it creepy. just really playful and normal. in other words dont say "when we're married blah blah blah".

A girl who is interested WILL play along. up this point, she's complied, ioi'd, responded well to kino. and when you talk about the future it'll just be one of the many things you talked about.

BUT if the girl is just playing you, she moved right along with you... until you hit any "future" oriented topics. She'll change the subject, blow it off, won't play along, etc. The hoe is playin ya

You can tell if a girl is playing you by simply how she acts with other guys. A single girl,thats always looking at her phone and flirts with every douche at the bar is a female player. That doesn't necessarily mean their sluts. I know loads of girls that flirt with every guy they see but only sleep with one guy. Female players aren't always sluts, but they're always attention whores. THese types of girls are usually party girls that hang out with dffenret groups of guys every night.

DOn't fall victim to their game. What do attention whore's fiend for, attention If you don't want to be played, then be the player yourself. When you hang out, leave her fiending for your attention. , hit on other girls in front of her.. Neg them.. etc.. girls like this won't stop playing you after you fclosed them enough times till they start catching feelings.. thats when you BAIL OUT!!

fiend? is that a verb or what dude? lol

fiend means to be really addicted to something... like a "crack fiend".. so attention whores crave attention just as muchas a crackhead fiends crack.. its slang, not a real word.. my bad..

Thanks for the comments, I just don't know? I mean at the time the girl was entranced but now? She had not text me back since the weekend, so I text her to see how she was? Leaving it a few days to show I was not needy. Then she didn't reply back, and I expected it to be a flake then a day later I receive a text, like nothing was wrong. So I left it a while then text her back and up till now I have not received anything back...

If she was keen she would be responding sooner, but I was trying to let it go but this new text has confused me? Is she trying to play with my emotions?

IDEAS?

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