I added a cute girl after talking to her via my friends post (lol facebook lets you comment anything nowadays )
now tht we're fb friends, how shud i start the wall to wall? wats a good opener for tht?
shes a hb6 if tht helps

First of all, I wouldn't do the wall to wall. Make sure that you send her a regular message because it's private. No need to put yourself on blast. This will allow her to feel more comfortable communicating with you too in case she is talking to somebody else as well. Read her profile over a couple of times and examine her pics... Look for things like hobbies and or fun past times that she has been involved in. Remember people love talking about themselves. Women love to be the center of attention so don't worry about selling yourself. Your time will come. Get to know her. Make her think that you think she is interesting and seems fun. If she is interested in you she will begin to ask you questions in return. Try to get her on IM though. The sooner the better. From there a number close is much easier that way then email. Oh and if she has a Myspace get that too. If you are friends on both then you become even more familiar which gives you more exposure. She might use one more then the other. Hope this helps. Do you have any specific questions?

"Cinch"

I would like to respectfully disagree here. Looking through her pictures and hobbies does nothing but make you look like a creeper when it comes to interaction. Even if its harmlessly, and you aren't trying to remember, its still gonna get stuck in there to an extent. Unless you can literally remember perfectly what she has ACTUALLY told you and what she hasn't, its gonna end up biting you in the butt and making you look like a creeper later on. That seems to be the thing girls are looking after these days, creepers.. sheesh..

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People put pictures up for all their friends to see. Saying that it does nothing but make you look like a creep is ridiculous! I have personally FClosed well over 100 women off the Internet alone in the past 10 years. My Internet game is as strong as anybodies. Either you didn't fully comprehend my post or your game is choked too tight because you are worried about women thinking you are a creep. sharp101 trust my post!

"Cinch"

First, the internet isn't exactly the best place to be picking up women imho.

Second, if you're beginning to look at all her pictures and read all her information, that sounds a bit stalkerish eh? Even if you ARENT stalking (obviously) the girl is still going to be offput about the fact that you know stuff about her that she hasn't personally told you. I've noticed this because girls have told me about guys messaging them like "hey i see you like [shit] im [blahblahbl]" and that being creepy, let alone in person when you're just like "Yeah I saw those pictures of you at the game" and she's just like "hm.. weird i never mentioned those to him or told him to go to them". Seriously, its a trend nowadays that girls are quick to get creeped out.

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I believe both Manna and Cinch are correct to be honest, I'm just trying to find the words to describe how lol. Will post later.

I think you are What If-ing too much. If my Aunt had Balls she would be my Uncle. If a female has pics on her profile and she accepted your friend request then she is saying welcome and look at my pictures. Every picture has a place to comment on them for a reason. Thats what Myspace and Facebook is for. You are the fist guy I've ever come across anywhere who is saying not to use those sights for their purpose. Also, you are saying this to somebody who has had wayyyy too much Internet success for me to agree with any of what you are saying. The hottest girl I've ever banged hands down in my life I met on the net. She is at least an 11. Brad Pitt would even agree that she was an 11 I'm sure of it! She was just one of well over a 100 as I said before, So saying that the Internet isn't exactly the best place to be picking up women is far from realistic. It is the best ice breaker ever! Maybe you creep girls out or somebody you know does with however it is you look, speak, text, type etc... I don't know you're game. I know that when I do things creep is not thought of. Your appearance and how you convey yourself has everything to do with what you can do or say to women be it the Internet, phone, or in person. _Manna_ After reading your last couple posts it makes me think you might be a little to apprehensive and possible improvements need to be made with your confidence. I say this respectfully.

"Cinch"

How you present your self on the internet to women on any social networking site will determine whether they think you're a "creeper". I'm willing to bet my next paycheck that EVERY SINGLE woman who is even fairly attractive has received something like the following message: "0MFG, uR 5o H4wT l3t5 make teh 5eX!". What happens in a womans mind when she reads that message? The "Fuckin Asshole CREEPER" flag goes up right away. Now that example message was just slightly extreme. Women also get these retarded messages: "Hi", "sup baby?". The same flag goes up, if not the "weird internet guy who doesn't know how to speak with women flag"

People put info and pics on the internet for a reason. Because they want people to see it and know them. That simple. If I mention something a woman I met online that she had in her profile will she think me a creeper? Depends, did I word for word say exactly what she said as if I memorized her entire profile? Or did I just make a simple comment (so you do swim competitively or just for fun ?" Did I comment all 124 pictures of hers right after she accepted my friend request? Like Cinch said its all about how you present yourself. Yet no matter what you do there will always be that ONE HB who thinks you're a full of shit creeper. That aint gonna change. Its just the way of the internet man.

Jeez I'm pretty sure this was horribly written but this is the best I could do.

I guess I've just experienced a lot of them, thats why I just stopped with reading profiles and just asked them directly. I feel its more of a extra thing i do to cover my ass but its not neccessary.

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lavitaebreve has expressed some of it.

I believe you shouldn't mention things until you feel it's right (the hook point). You don't want to be the guy saying 'OMG i love dogs too, lets fuck', that's not going to work.
But you can also build amazing comfort by having her tell you about her ambitions/hobbies/etc.
You should start mentioning things only if you're running out of things to say and feel you must keep talking (most of the time you can number close before this is necessary).

simple as that.

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