so i have known this girl as an aquaintance for just under a year, bit of very light flirting when i see her about, nothing much as we met when i was out with my then girlfriend.

anyway we chatted a bit on FB but nothing much, then about a month she had a post about xfactor, so i said she was gay for liking it, she said some response, then i asked her when she was coming round so i could do rude things to her, anyway she said maybe but i think i came on a bit string and we never hooked up. she gave me a couple of excuses y she couldn’t several times and i moved on.

anyway last night she was online and i have been hanging about with some of her friends. so i asked her y she hadnt been out that night, (more to kinda say your going to be seeing me around, as i still felt a bit awkward) so general chit chat,

she starts talking about her gran being in hospital again, so i changed the conversation (i didnt want to be associated with bad feelings about her gran).

So i asked when she was coming out again, and told her to wear something kinky for me, she said no she wasnt going to wear anything kinky for me. so i basically said this wasn’t a request i was telling her what i wanted.

anyway bit of back and fourth and she started getting very comfortable with me talking about sex. then the convo went all serious again,

so i started teasing her that her friends were my friends now and she was jealous. this went on for a bit, then i said i wanted to see her. then convo turned serious again and we talked with me moving the convo away from serious subjects
we got into a banter and i was flirting heavily and she told me she was sick of being messed around,
me “have i ever lied to u about my intentions.
Hb “nope

me "well i would like to think im being very direct with u, and i certainly dont consider myself in the 90% of men ure talking about" ( we talked about men messin her around generally)

we exchanged a few messages, then i said i take it u dont like being lied to.

i really thought i had lost it here cos i was not going to lie to her and tell her i wanted more than i did.

so i said i take it that includes someone promising u the world while just taking advantage to get wha tthey want

hb i jus want mr right now n i dont care if ppl fink im too young, i need a decent releashonship (she is 21 im 30)
i thought i had really lost it now. So we talked a bit more then i said can i be honest with u. Then said
ok well what i want is for u to get in a taxi and get round here right now.
and thats conflicting me
so get in a taxi and get round here right now
she gave me a few crapy excuses but not with much conviction. Then i said what do u have to loose by coming over. Be original and say yes.

So she did. And was over half hor later.

I didn’t want her to get in the mood for talking about her gran, so i kissed her as soon as she got out of the taxi and we went upstairs. End of story. Any feedback would be appreciated.

LOL I always hate doing this, feel so guilty. When doing this, you want to be careful to not come across as just ignoring, I don't know, I like to show that I might care at least a little. But I usually deal with this by saying something positive/hope giving then cleverly shifting the convo away.
Not sure about this, I don't usually offer up the chance to get rejected in anyway, I usually phrase it in a way where it sounds more like i am to reject her/she is trying for me. But, the telling her what you wanted part ould be kinda strong I guess. So that could work fine if thts your thing.



For the rest of it, I would have handled it a lot different, but it worked for you, so no point saying how I would have handled it (besides cant be bothered reading through it again )
I'm just usually more crafty/manipulative/sly with my shit. Maybe not necessary, but it works for me, and I enjoy it.


all in all, nice one, mate.


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sounds like ure being a bit forward, maybe make it like liquid said, and make it seem like ure the target rather than trying to get her to hookup with u. Either way it worked out which is definitely impressive but it can easily go wrong with girls who maybe arent as outgoing as she is. Nonetheless, good job man and i hope to see some improved lay reports soon =)


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