That is what I couldn't decide. Which would be better. The AFC in me would love to ring her up and confess undying love to her lol (exagerated for entertainment purposes only.)

But I don't know if waiting it out would make her lose interest.

here is a fool proof second day plan. Works like a charm. I actually did this by accident and ended up with a LTR because of it.

When it gets to be the day before ur date text her saying your busy doing something (Preferrably DHV) most of the day but gimme a call around x:xx time. Then when she calls tell her a bland normal date plan (Dinner and a movie, quick bite than a party you know the usual afc crap) then do something completely different. I'm talking way out of left field compared to what you told her. Cook her something than take a walk. Go to a cafe and just hang there before heading to a quiet lounge to relax. Then when she asks what happened to dinner and a movie, look at her surprised and slightly offended like "What do you take me for some normal punk?" or something like that. She'll remember this date for a while.

Oh and if she's saying you are the type of guy she should be with it's a cue to not blow it. She's interested and wants you, but the slightest hiccup could still throw it off. You're in though, so great job.

Edit woa I didn't realize that key combination would make an angry face. it's supposed to read some random time.

Thans for your input mate!

So I should arrange a day 2 (say a boring one but do something amazing) which by the way is an AWESOME idea. I love it!
And take things from there try to make the move?
So I think ringing her in a while would be a good idea, since I bumped into her in town and didn't talk much. Arrange a coffee date BS for during the week, then do something brilliat.

Sound like a plan?

THANK YOU

Yea I prefer to text them to gimme a call, but if you feel like she's already into you fully calling her is not a problem.

And if you have enough swagger to pull it off, it's not "Will you go out with me on Fri.?" it's "Guess why this Friday is gonna be the best day of your life?" her "Why?" "Cuz I'm taking you out haha" If this girl is worth your time she's probably gonna come back with something like oh you think so or w/e neg like that. Just have a response ready.

If you aren't comfortable enough in your phone game yet or you're tired of playing games with this girl than yea just straight up ask her. Lemme know how it goes.

Ok mate thank you.

I will text her something like
"Hey HB, ring me when you get a moment x"

and then I will tell her to free herself up for the week because she is coming out with me and that I will call her after the weekend and make actual plans. Then Sunday afternoon I will ring her and make the plans for a coffee date.
But do something better I am thinking use EvoJ's suggested day 2 and take her to childrens ward hospital and balloon modelling. So when she gets here we will hop on a bus she will be like "where we going?" and I will leave her in suspense (women love anticipation.)

Then see where I can go from there. How can I go about getting the Kclose from here? Bringing her back to my place may be awkward but if that is the only way...

This isn't a phrase I like to hear sometimes. Women KNOW the type of guy the SHOULD be with, but they don't because they always go after the opposite of what they say.

ie....I want a nice guy. (translation: i'm saying stupid shit to make myself feel better, all the while knowing I'm going to end up with another guy that manipulates my mind and stimulates the challenge within me)

Saq makes a good point, but there's not much he can do about that now. Just seem spontaneous and edgy and you should be fine. Awful hard to seem edgy at a children's ward so unless you are sure she really does want you to be that nice I'd avoid it.

Children's ward is good if you were the Alpha at a club/bar the last time she saw you and then your showing her a different side. If you seemed like a nice guy the whole time, this could blow up in your face. "He's such a nice guy how could I have sex with him and ruin our friendship?" bleeeeh. Those words make me shudder at my very core. Remember no matter what girls say they want an edgy guy. There's nothing wrong with showing your softer side. Unlike most of these guys I encourage it. But not until she's convinced you're a spontaneous guy.

As for the kiss close after a date like that I have no friggin clue lol. I'd say do a day-nighter. After the childrens ward (I'm guessing you are doing this in the afternoon) walk her home and plan an outing for that night to a place where you can be Alpha again. Then after that go for the k and maybe f-close. Unless you want a long term with this chick. Stick just to the k-close if that's the case.

An update for any of you guys who are interested:

I texted her today (after another 2 days no contact) telling her to ring me when she has a moment.

I got a text asking why. So, I started to reply (was going to say something like "I have some REAL big news for you"

Halfway through reply, I got a call. Withheld number. So I rejected the call. It rung again, so I answered - it was said HB

Little small talk about the weekend, then told her the big news - she can come shopping with me on Tuesday. I embraced anticipation by saying things like "brace yourself, strap in" etc, before telling the actal "news."

She said she has lessons and stuff but she will text me Tuesday let me know. I told her I will expect a text and if I don't get one, her priviliges will be taken away and she will not be allowed to come shopping with me.

I will try to get the Kclose, but I hve no clue how yet. I have 2 days to figure it out

Also I am thinking buy a frisbee we we are shopping, and go play for a bit. Will take us into the park, and possibly Kclose there?

So, I await a text message

deff wait only becasue one it makes you look like you have choices and your not desperate. Thats also a good neg you dont want to show her to much intrest y calling 3 days in a row im not saying ruin your chances im just saying wait one day.

don't call her, text her, the more time you spend talkin the more time you have to fuck it up, the more time overall you spend not progressing the seduction and ultimately getting laid, the more time you have of fuckin it up or her finding someone else all the while you slip into the friend zone. Getting laid quickly qualifies you to be with her so you won't be wasting your time and will set you up perfect for a LTR if you sex her right... Make the date short and in public, thats non-threatening and you can use a false time constraint, you gotta be somewhere important or goin out to celebrate with friends all the while DHVing... good luck