| So, in-field, I came up with a new phase-shift to solid kiss-close.
I did it the first time out of nowhere and it worked. Did it again last night...2/2 (she also had a boyfriend).
When you hit that point where you're isolated and know you're almost there, you tell her that you think it's funny how so many people live with filters and can't ever say what they're really thinking and it ends up holding them back from so many *good things*.
She'll respond with some fluff reply, probably trying to sound smart and most likely trying to qualify herself too.
NOW, you say, "Let's try a game. You have to say something in my ear, and it has to be the very first thing that comes to your mind, completely unfiltered. Then, I'll go after and I have to be completely unfiltered too."
(if she relents, just bust on her for being afraid then start it yourself)
When you go first, don't just whisper in her ear. Grab the back of her head, or near the top of her neck and pull her in when you do it.
Now, here's the issue..I don't remember what I said. I know what it was like:
First whisper: something C/F
Second: Something that shows why you like her (and not her anything related to her looks)
Third: I didn't say anything, but breathed in her hair lightly, rubbed her cheeck agaisnt mine, then slowly went in for the kill. By that time, the tension was so big it was just great to relieve it.
Just take this slow, let the tension build, escalate the kino as you go, etc.
So, let's try and come up with the optimal things to say there. What do you think is best to say there?
I know this works...well[/]. Let's make it perfect now.
-WorkEthic
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