i've never felt confused like this ... it started last saturday when i met with this girl in which on the same night we kissed each other for the whole night and we exchanged phone numbers too to meet again the next day ... but after this there is a little bit complicated story ..
the problem is that this girl was in a relationship just 2 weeks ago and now is just single again.. another thing is that about 3 weeks ago while her boyfriend was abroad she get out with my best friend and last saturday when she met again with my best friend while we were partying in a night club he (my best friend) just like try to ignore her after he had another girl with him and he wasn't much interested to complete dating with her ...
after we went to another club we just met again and it was here where the story has begun ... we just met with each other the first time here and i don't know how to exactly describe this moment how we start to dance with each other and kissed each other since it just happened in just few seconds ...
at first i really felt like to be unfair on my friend since she gets out with him before but i speaked to him that night and he told to don't worry about that and it's like i made him a favour since he wasn't much interested in her...

that day after we left the night club we went to a quite place and just stayed there for about 1 and a half hour talking and asking several questions such as why she get out with me ... at that moment i was confused that she get out with me to show my best friend that isn't worring although he ignore her cause he has another girl with him, it's like she used me ... but she with an honestly voice told me that she didn't do that for that reason ... anyway after some things which happend after that night we exchanged our mobile number to just meet again tomorrow ... in fact tomorrow we get out again and it was another good night ...

after sunday we just complete talking on msn till now and the problem is here ... this is my first time that i really get mad on a girl and i'm really confused what can i do to start a relationship ... but i don't want to start a relationship in just few days since still i have many thoughts in my mind such as like this girl cheated on her boyfriend while he was abroad, cheated with my best friend since she get out with me although my best friend was not interested anymore and the last thing is that she has been single again about 2 weeks ago and in my opinion 2 weeks are quite few ...

my question is if i decide to start a relationship with this girl how should i ask her ... i don't know how, i've never been in a relationship before so i'm very anxious about certain things .. even more than this i don't consider myself as a talkitive person although this week we really talked with each other on msn about several things like about her school, her hobbies and just normal usuall things .. but i'm feeling that i'm not increasing the attraction and comfort with her ... although she showed me indications of interest ...

can anyone help me out about this ?? how to be more talkitive and i'm doing good at the moment just talking with her on several things ?? how should i switch from talking like this to some personal subjects about the realtionships and so on .... and another thing is that i don't want to show her that she is everything for me, i want to show her some higher values by ignore her and don't talk to her to see if she talks to me but on the same time i start to be afraid that i'm going to loose her ...

any help guys please i really want to reach my objective from this first experience ... appreciate if you can help me out ..

thanks
Tomoya