Hi,
I find that when I first enter a club, it often takes a couple of hours before I feel relaxed and confident enough to approach without much anxiety,
Up until this point I often feel quite self-conscious and unrelaxed, obviously not an ideal state for sarging.
I am aware that the best way to quickly get into a better state is to approach as soon as possible, however I often dont have the balls to do this early on and was wondering if any of you have any suggestions for other methods.
Alot of other guys I know use excessive alcohol consumption to deal with this, but obviously thats a bad method.
Any help would be appreciated, thanks in advance

I think the only thing that will really help is to approach immediately. If you do this every time you' ll get comfortable sooner in the club. You have to understand that you' re wasting a lot of time, and because of that you won' t improve as fas as you should be. I know where you coming from because I also have this problem. Good luck!

A lot of people frown on mixing sarging with drinking. I'm uncomfortable in clubs in general so a few drinks to get buzzed (not tipsy, not drunk, not shitfaced) helps me relax a bit. Lossens me up but I remain sharp. I don't do it everytim, I'd like to learn Pick-up with fewer crutches.